Should I have a 3some?

I really love my boyfriend and I think he loves me.. I alway talk about or future like marriage and kids and stuff and he gets mad and says that wont happen anytime soon and calls me a wh**re and he even said he would never marry a wh**re, he also said...

one nite we mite not be together forever and I mite find my dream guy or he mite find his dream girl and when I ran to the bathroom crying he tried to make me feel better by justifinying what he said I am really sad like I love him so much and he dosnt think he loved me enough to marry me so why am I f*cking him if he theres a chance he dosnt want to be with me forever. So if im not the "one" for him should I jsut act like a wh*re and do every sex thing for him including a 3some. I am confused.

It sounds like he just wants you for sexual activities, If he tells you you're a wh*re it's probably just to make you feel, and act that way, but don't let it get to your head if your not one. maybe hes not the one you should be with.

he thinks im a wh*re cause I cheated on my finance with him, if it will help you give me advice please feel free to look at my pastr relationship questions.

This doesn't sound like a very balanced relationship, manda... I don't think he should be treating you like that. He needs to put your past behind him, and stop making comments about what you did.

You need to have some pride. Sex is not something you "give" ... whether its one on one or 3somes... it has to be for you as well as for him. If you give him those things so that he keeps you, then you are selling yourself.

I think you can do a lot better.

In my eyes you are HIS wh*re! He was screwing you knowing YOU were engaged. If you are a wh*re, then he is a manwh*re.
Why are you with someone who clearly doesnt love, OR respect you? How sad to see someone put up with such treatment for the sake of "love". You are with an abusive, wicked bastard!! Was he worth leaving your fiancee for?
A person with a healthy sense of self-worth usually does not want a relationship where one of the parties is abusive. Hun, I feel sorry for you, because you dont seem to understand what a real healthy, loving relationship is.
*so if im not the 'one' for him should I jsut act like a wh*re and do every sex thing for him including a 3some. I am confused* >You really are confused.
Sex isnt going to fix a relationship, nor is it going to keep a relationship. Doing/giving this disrespectful jerk whatever he wants, isnt going to make things better, in fact its only going to worsen them. I dont know your fiancee from Adam, but I cant comprehend how you even drifted outside of that relationship into the arms of Mr. Hyde!

I dont think so , I went away on vacation and had trouble paying for my bills wich wer e quite expensive if sex was all he wanted he woulda left and fond a girl toy he didnt have to pay for.

Still, you need to ask yourself if this is a relationship of convenience. For him. In other words, better than nothing? Someone to pass the time with until something better comes along? Thats fine as long as you can both accept that, I guess.