Should I cheat ?

Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months we are happy most of the time but we're 13 and 10 months is along time to be tied down for I mean its the summer holidays and I just want to hae some fun you know and I have been asked by a guy who...

lives up near my other house him and my boyfriend would never meet and my boyfriend would never find out but I still don't know if I should but I want to but I always feel guilty easily so I want to know if I should go out with him just for a few weeks

brentblack> sorry to say, but this type of thing just isnt your calling> You need to check in as a patient in a psychiatric ward! They could do wonders for psychos like you!

You are NOT happy if you are thinking about cheating on your boyfriend! What are you expecting to get out of it? 13 is wayyy to young to be tied down anyway! Why do you feel the need to have a boyfriend? Just go out and have fun w/your gfs like kids your age should be, instead of worrying about bfs!Cheating will solve your 10 month problem, now wont it...NOT!! Dont be a jerk to your boyfriend just because you want to have some fun!! "he'll never find out"? Doesnt sound like you have a conscience if you can cheat on someone whos been faithful to you for 10 months! Just remember>WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND!

I would suggest breaking up with him, because all its going to do is cause drama in your life, you are going to think about it, possibly feel bad, he may find out even though you think he wont, and there is just a lot of things that come with cheating. Its better to be honest and get out of your relationships rather than cheating.

Jason

your 13. break up with him if your considering cheating.. your obviously not too happy. dont cheat. cheatings just wrong and causes far to many problems. how would you feel if he did that to you. if you dont want to be tied down then break-up with him.. it is summer, and theres plenty of boys out there.

) You "should" not to do it, but you "have" to do it if you feel as you described. Being "tied down" is certainly very uncomfortable. The best would be if you could agree with your b/f, but some persons enjoy secret adventures more than open ones.

if it doesn't bother your consience that you break his heart or feel really awful you should do it. there's always plenty of guys out there, but you mostly end up with one right? and even he's standing right in front on you you wouldn't know, would you????

it will cause problems in your future relationships, because you will have this thing in your head telling you, you can get away with cheating. Thus you may end up cheating on someone you really want to marry... this is ofcourse way in the future...

sorry but I've been cheated on it fucking sucks no offense but thats a b*tch thing to do how about you go sleep with ten guys and tell every single one what you just did? you wouldnt would u? and if your boyfriend cheated on you how would you feel???

She is 13... I don't think she cheating is the same thing ... but maybe?

Doesn't matter how young you are cheating always feels sh*tty. I mean, hes obviously not going to feel great if he ever found out right? Honestly, people who even think about cheating make me sick and don't deserve boyfriends/girlfriends. And if you feel the need to cheat, but don't want to break up with him, at least go on a break, because you most certainly need one if your considering cheating. But please, don't cheat.

Thats not what I ment, I understand age doesnt matter when cheating, but ijustdontknow said something about sex... and I was just stating its not like that I dont believe..

I agree with ijustdontknow. being cheated on sucks. and even if you don't feel bad, people WILL find out, and you will get a bad rap. but thats not even the big deal. you are a b*tch if you cheat. thinking about cheating means you dont even deserve him. everyone wants you to dump him. I think he should dump you, because OBVIOUSLY he deserves better.

well.. you shouldnt cheat on your boyfriend cus that would only make your guilt feel worse. maybe you should tell your boyfriend that you to should start seeing other people for a while, I mean just to take a break. and then maybe you can start being with the guy down the block, who knows. and then if you guys ever agree to go back together, you would have a strpnger realtionship believe it or not!

its a sin to cheat. you could go to hell.
I dont think you should cheat. just break up with him.

no. my best friend just cheated on her boyfriend and now she dosnt want to live. and its SO annoying cus I have to listen to it every time we talk. you must not really be happy with this guy. happy = satisfied. if your not satisfied with him then your not happy with him. you should talk to him. dont go and hurt him.

just break up be single and have fun, obveously you are not ready for commitment, but at your age I would take things MUCH slower then you are!!!