Should I break up with her

Thunder Robot Asked by funadvice 4 months ago, 7 answers.

Ok so I have a girlfriend whom I have been going out with for about five months and I love her a lot but she is a huge lier and she does it a lot. She has a group of friends who I dont like at all but I cant take her friends away so anyways they drink a...

lot at parties and probably do drugs so they invited her to a party and she wanted us to go but I didnt feel to good so I told her to go without me and knowing her friends I made her promise me she wasnt going to drink or do drugs . Turns out the next day my best friend who was also at the party called me and told me that my girlfriend had gotten drunk after she promised me she wouldnt so I dont think I can trust her anymore should I end this relationship or should I forgive her . Thanks for you help.

Answered by sinindespair on Jul 11, 2008, 01:28PM
| 36 answers.

forgive her but I think you should break up with her
or first tell her to please stop lying
especially to you
make her promise
if she breaks that promise
break up with her
(softly though don't make her hate you)
if you want you can tell her to stay friends

hope I helped some

Answered by sillist1s on Jul 11, 2008, 01:32PM
| 1199 answers.

Talk to her about it but don't breakup with her just because of that. Part of relationships is working out problems together. If you guys talk through it and it seems that she doesn't accept how you feel, then consider breaking up with her. If she says she's sorry and she'll never do it again, don't break up with her, but if she goes back on that, kick her to the curb.

Answered by hopeihelped on Jul 11, 2008, 01:43PM
| 29 answers.

It all depends on how you feel about her. If you love her enough to stay together, then do it. But if you ask me I would up with her. I wouldn't stay with anyone who would lie to me. If she loved you I don't think she would lie to you. So why stay with a person who lie and you can't trust. If you really love her break up with her, let her know that you are not going to except that behavior, let her know that if you are going to be together then she has to change. I hope I helped

Answered by themainman on Jul 11, 2008, 01:45PM
| 75 answers.

say that lying hurts your feelings than break up with her but stay friends

Answered by naughtyprincess18 on Jul 11, 2008, 03:17PM
| 209 answers.

alright. I used to be just like your girlfriend. and I think you need to just tell her flat out that you want her to stop. tell her that its either you or her drinking habit. if she cares for you as much as you do for her, then she'll try to ease up on her habit. and give her time. habits are hard to break. but if she continues to without hesitation, and she ignores your pleas for her to stop, then you need to end it. if you dont, then your going to continue to be hurt. hope everything works out good for you. and remember, dont be TOO hard on her!

Answered by iluvm3 on Jul 11, 2008, 03:33PM
| 40 answers.

well you should talk 2 her and tell her you dont like it when she b lieing 2 you and b like f you keep doing it its over

Answered by dreaming on Jul 11, 2008, 03:36PM
| 51 answers.

If you can't trust there is no relationship. I'm not joking I have watched relationshipd fall apart over the exact same drama.But do forgive, its not good to hold grudges.

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