Should I break up with her?

my band Asked by baconskater 5 months ago, 15 answers.

me and my girl have been together for 1 year and 3 months but she has latly be getting made over stpid little things the other day she ran away when we were walking home and she took off my best friend and I even trided and I finally found out she was...

getting in trouble becuse she miss under stood her mom but should I brake up with her I also have been haveing feelings for another girl but I have not cheated and there is not really anything there for my girlfriend anymore when I say I love you I doint feel anything

Answered by czechbabigurl1994_21 on Jun 07, 2008, 05:25PM
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Dear, baconskater,

Uhmm, I honestly think you should break up with her or she will get hurt, just like me. Recently my boyfriend stayed with me and then I found out that through one week that we were together for, he had feelings for another girl... We have been together for a long time but over ONE week he liked another girl...So he broke up with me, went to her, broke up with her, went back to me, and now he's with her. Yeah, it hurt's! Let her go now, instead in the future, where she finds out that you have been telling her you love her, yet you have feelings for another girl. I am a girl and been through a lot, so let her go. Theres only room for one in a heart.

Love,
x0.CzechButterfly

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Answered by baconskater on Jun 07, 2008, 05:23PM
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but I doint want to hurt he we are seeing each other tommarow but im not truly happy

Answered by kimzeh on Jun 07, 2008, 05:24PM
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You shouldn't be saying "I love you" if you don't mean it. But yes, before you break up with her, try to tell her about what's going on and what's confusing you.

Answered by funadvice on Jun 07, 2008, 05:26PM
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its gana hurt here more in the end if she finds out you stayed with her cus you dont want to hurt her

Answered by baconskater on Jun 07, 2008, 05:28PM
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but how do I tell her with out hurting her bad

Answered by baconskater on Jun 07, 2008, 05:29PM
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should I tell her after tomarrow and wait to tell her for a week

Answered by toadaly on Jun 07, 2008, 05:30PM
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It sounds like it's time to move on.

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Answered by baconskater on Jun 07, 2008, 05:32PM
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but should I tell her in a week since we are seeing each other tommarow and going to a poconos race

Answered by xxjulixx on Jun 07, 2008, 05:37PM
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You need to break up with her. Because you can't lead this girl on like that. If you're not attracted to her, then you're not. So don't try to hide that. You can't be with someoene out of pity... Tell her and get the other girl. You don't want to hurt her, but if you hide the fact that you don't love her, once she finds out, it will be worst then what could have been possible.

Answered by funadvice on Jun 07, 2008, 05:39PM
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tell her you will always love her but its not that kinda of love anymore tell her you love and care bout her as a frenn

Answered by czechbabigurl1994_21 on Jun 07, 2008, 05:39PM
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Uhm... Well...Maybe you should talk to her tmw, and tell her there.. And ask her if she still wants to be friends. Honestly, the earlier the better... Rather then being with her and pretending to like her, do it when you see her! She might think you cheated on her and she will get even more hurt! Oh and wait like a week then go out with the other girl, because if she finds out you went out with the other gil when you just broke up with her, she will feel like you were excited to break up with her because you just couldn't stand her! Trust me, girls think.. A LOT

Answered by amblessed on Jun 07, 2008, 06:10PM
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It appears you're ignoring a lot of red flags - move on would be best...Take care !!

Answered by idealism on Jun 07, 2008, 06:19PM
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just break up with her... dont lead her on anymore. you might have been together for a long time but dont make it longer. People move on. Sure she'll probably get hurt but its for the best... who knows maybe she'll tell you she doesnt love you anymore either...

Answered by amarante_suzuki on Jun 07, 2008, 06:58PM
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Sorri about jrwoodfield.. He always makes me laugh even though I hate him..
And omg, so sad TT.TT
I will try and help..
Okay, you really should break up with her.. Just know that you are most likely make her terribly sad.. And You'll have to tell her that there's someone else for her..
And just like me, I won't believe it. And I don't believe it, now. You don't want to hear my story, because no one cares.. But try and comfort her..

Answered by juicebox69 on Jun 07, 2008, 07:39PM

it depend if you still like her and let her off slowly

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