Is it wrong for my cousin to date my ex?

Is it wrong for my cousin to date my ex? Because she is and I think it's wrong.

She should have ask what you thought before hand. If you really have a serious problem with it,I'd talk to her.Maybe shes unaware of your hurt feelings.

Ex - means no more, as in moved on, as in free to choose who to date...Take car !!

I think she is. First off they were dating or whatever without telling anyone, so she didnt ask me she just did it behind my back. My ex happens to be my sisters husbands best friend. so at my sisters wedding about 2 months ago my cousin and my ex kinda made it clear that they were dating. we were drunk so we talked about it then, but like I said we were drunk so I think everything we said was just fake. But the weekend before my sisters wedding me and my ex kissed . but I didnt know they were dating because they were hiding it from me. So I guess he went and told her. so the next day (my sisters bridal shower) she told my sister she felt awkward around me because she knew what I did and she told my sis she didnt even want to take me out (for my sis bacholorette party) because she was the desinated driver. but she did and we never talked it's just a bad vibe when im around her. which im not around her much only around that time for the weddding,. but then I told them both I wouldnt have done what I did if I knew ya'll were 2 gether but ya'll were hiding it. they both say they werent even together yet so whats the prob. ?? I dont know! lol anyways the other weird thing is my sis hangs out with them still which is expected though since her husband is this guys best friend. but my parents hung out with them this past weekend at my ex's dads house for a pool party and it's like oook I cant hang out with my family when they get together because I dont want to be around my ex and my cousin. and another weird monent was sat. I was at wal mart and I saw them there. she told my sister again it was just awkward because he was making small talk with her. ooowell is what I want to tall her she should have thought about that b 4 she got with my ex. but I guess there happy she has 2 kids so shes prob even happier because she got someone 2 be a father figure now. just makes me mad I never thought I would have to deal with a family member doiing this to me. and I dont want to talk 2 her about it, because I dont even want to talk 2 her no more I really dont like her for this. I honestly think she should talk 2 me or should have in the 1st place.

any more advice?

when we're drunk "true colors" comes out and it doesnt mean fake, its actually something we wanted to say and real and sometimes we just cant accept it.. we're on denial and I think its time for you to move on with your ex... it doesnt concerns you now since the two of you already broke up, he can and you can choose whomever you like going out with... thats just me... good luck!

wrong or not, I too had a cousin who dated my ex. Then we got back together later on, and are now married. We have been together for 24yrs now and I talk to her (my cousin), but I have found it very difficult to forgive her. She was not only my cousin, but one of my best friends at the time. I am not comfortable around her. She was always the type to sleep with every guy she had ever met, and it is difficult to get that picture out of my head. So, only you can decide if it is ok. I think it depends on how serious your relationship was with your ex, as to how, when and if you will be ok with this. Good Luck!

I would be really mad like you are. If your cousin didn't even have the decency to ask you first before she started dating your ex, then I'm sorry but she's really messed up! Family doesn't do that (ESPECIALLY behind your back) and I don't think its ever okay. Your ex is pretty stupid for doing that as well. Seeing this though should make you feel better about not being with him because you clearly deserve someone better. Sometimes its just good to forgive and forget, but make sure you talk to your cousin alone about why you are mad, and why you kissed your ex that one time. Just tell her you hope she's happy with him. If you say these things it will really make you look like the better person - also you can find someone else better. After you talk to your cousin, don't talk to her again for a while. All this awkwardness will die down and hopefully you can get back to being normal with her again.

thanks 4 everyones responses, please feel free to leave more comments it's cool to have other opinions. thats how I feel I just think it's trashy for her to do that 2 me, but yes wrong of him. Thanks again!!

well I think that its ok
even amogst friends
its silly how girls say there friends arnt allowed to date there ex's
in life, people date other people in search of the perfect partner
majority or relationships wont work out,
and if your not over the person it will make your life harder
I understand it causes tension between friends if they do
you should tell your friend how you feel
but also understand she has a right to date him
they could end up falling in love after all
it sounds like you might not be completely over him
but if you are, you wouldnt care
because your going to find someone else soon, and you cant change the past
just move on from it

He's your ex. The only one that has an issue is you. Unfortunately, it isn't any of your business anymore.

I am over this guy completley thats why I broke it off with him because I didnt like him as much as I wanted 2, I was still in love with my previous b/f so I ended it with this guy and now im with my ex. its great. so I am over him if I wasnt over him I wouldnt have broke up with him. I just think its messed up for a family member or friend to date a ex. thats just the way I look at it. its just trashy. theres tons of fish in the sea but he chose to keep it in the family and my cousin just said I dont care what she thinks ima date her ex. lol its just funny to me but really messed up too.

No it's not wrong,because if he's your EX that means he does'nt belong to you ANY MORE,he's not yours at all!!!So if you think that's wrong that means you still LIKE/love your ex.It' simple