Should I be her friend after she exposed me?

Asked by shellya 9 months ago, 9 answers.

I told her a secret about me and my boss, that we had a good time at his house and he gave me $100.00. She went to work the next day and told 3 people all the details, (but we call eachother cousins because we use to be so cool.) The boss asked me why...

did I tell her and now we have a mess to clean up. I am so mad she would do that. Should I continue to be her friend? We been friends since we were 9, now we are 22.

Answered by cjbear on Feb 28, 2008, 04:49PM
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She betrayed your trust. Has she ever done this before? If so, then you can't trust her and you don't want to be friends with someone you can't trust.

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Answered by dillonsmommy1023 on Feb 28, 2008, 04:45PM
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not many people are lucky enough to have "good" friends for 13 years... so I say forgive her && continue to be her friend.. just don't tell her anymore secrets until she's gained back your trust !!

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Answered by cjbear on Feb 28, 2008, 04:48PM
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She betrayed your trust. Has she ever done this before? If so, then you can't trust her and you don't want to be friends with someone you can't trust.

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Answered by cjbear on Feb 28, 2008, 04:50PM
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This one is only up to you. You have been friends forever basically...but she betrayed your trust. Has she ever done this before? Would you trust her again? These are a few questions you need to ask yourself. Make your decision based on your answers.

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Answered by 2hot4u2007 on Feb 28, 2008, 04:51PM
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I think you should confront her about it and tell her how angry you are with her and give a chance to apologize but I think if you've been friends for that long then that's a true to the end friendship that you wouldn't want to ruin.

Answered by funadvice on Feb 28, 2008, 06:35PM
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omg I just HATE it when a person you trust most exposes a very PRIVATE information about u. BUT in your case your friend and you have been friends for 12-13 years...and thats pretty cool. I really think you should forgive her for what she did. But for future references I think you should keep your "privacey" to your self.

Answered by funadvice on Feb 28, 2008, 08:16PM
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Some friends you wave to across the street. Some friends you talk about why you are upset with your kids babysitter. Some friends you talk about your yeast infection (or screwing around with the boss). I would take her down a peg or two. Some people can't handle hearing information that could be used as ammunition.

Answered by familycoach on Feb 29, 2008, 05:15AM
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Dear Shell,
Start to distance yourself from this "friend".

Does not matter how long you have been friends.

Familycoach

Answered by ladycivicnena on Feb 29, 2008, 09:42AM
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You more like sister and sister shouldn't tell you serect that a backstabber started distance her or never ever tell her anything again like that watch what you say

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