Should I take this big step to marriage?

Asked by mrscurry2008 5 months ago, 9 answers.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years and he asked me to marry him. I'm 16 and his is 19. Should I take this next big step yet?

Answered by lostangel on Jun 24, 2008, 09:28PM

It sounds like your not ready, if you really love someone. You wouldn't be asking if you should marry them after almost 3 years. But that's just my opinion.

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Answered by hippiepeaceprincess on Jun 24, 2008, 09:29PM
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your 16 you have so much life before you. I understand you love him but at least wait a few more years if your wanting to get married he should be able to wait

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Answered by butterfly_kiss3z on Jun 24, 2008, 09:30PM
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you're 16!! aren't you not done school yet?... plus your boyfriend... he's 19... isn't he not done school yet himself? what would your parents think? - aren't you still a little too young to be thinking about marraige!!??

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Answered by erika_idk_1150 on Jun 24, 2008, 09:46PM
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I would totally wait till school gets out and decide then

what happens when you want to go to college or do something else and his opinion's the total opposite

...just wait.
=)

Answered by squiggy1960 on Jun 24, 2008, 09:48PM
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hell no, you both still have a few years before you would be ready for that, if he loves you then he will respect your decision to wait and as lostangel said if you have to ask someone about this then you are not ready, give your self some time to live and see what life has to offer you.

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Answered by gennaglessnerr on Jun 24, 2008, 10:44PM
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Naaah, your too young.

-Finish school
-Get a good stable job
-THEN start thinking about marraige.

<3.

Answered by bubux007 on Jun 24, 2008, 11:15PM
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I think both of you are young for marriage.

Answered by stephanief987 on Jun 24, 2008, 11:58PM
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Nope.
Wait until you have all of your education and both have a good career.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 25, 2008, 05:38AM
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By the nature of life and adult experiences, someone who is older will have more world-wise knowledge of a life other than their own – they will be experienced with paying bills, holding down a job, furthering their education, and other goals. A younger couple, may be wrapped in the novelty of their emotions and not have as good a conception of how to build a life together without help from parents or other sources.

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