How can I become more girly?

am 14 years old and am a tomboy am more boy then girl

1 I don't shave my legs
2 I hang out with my bro and his friends
3 I don't wear skirts
4 I don't wear a bra
5 no1 likes me
6 no boys like me

I want to become a girly-girl I just on't know how
I don't wear a bra or shave my legs cause everyone teases me cause am a tomboy

HELP!!!

aww ok well ... first off I think that you should shave your legs( no one has to know if you dont want them to because your legs with be covered by your pants lol) and I think that you should wear a bra because when you get older you dont want your boobs to get saggy lol... just slowly work your way into it. just incase you dont want people to think like what?!? is she doing you know.. so little by little just start to girly up a little bit. you know maybe go out and get a pink shirt well it doesnt have to be pink lol but like a few girl shirts that arnt boy shirts. or maybe some tang tops.( make sure your under arms are shaved!) then you could get a pair of jeans that fit you good, you know that arnt baggy or all riped or anything and wear them with one of your new shirts or an old shirt because your slowly working into it because if your still wearing the jeans that compliment you then the shirt really isnt that big of a deal yet. ... How do yo uwear your hair? if you always wear it up in a messy ponytail or bun, then dont lol. wear it down or half up half down or a low side ponytail ... let me know if any of this helps!

You've listed everything that makes you a tomboy and you don't know how to become girly? Really?

I think you're too young to start shaving your legs, and too old to not be wearing a bra. By now you already have breasts and people can see through your shirt. If you don't want to wear the usual bra, go with the sports bra.

I think you should be yourself. Changing who you are will not make you happier. If you want to be a tomboy, be one! If people don't accept that, then they're not worth being around. You are not the one with the problem--they are.

I was the same way, you have to take it a step at a time, like try wearing your hair more girly like, like in curls or wateva, and try shaving2. then try changing your clothes to what you most girls wearing, but dont try to look trampy like most of them, just take it a step at a time you'll start to feel the vibe

hey! I have a friend and shes a total tomboy she older then me but who cares.Shes a total tomboy which is ok but I notice that she does were a bra,and she does shave her legs and she still a tomboy! Shaving your legs and wering a bra and mabey a pink shirt isnt girly its called ' Personal Hygene' for girls.My brother and I which I am a girl play airsoft wars with her and a bunch of other boys and her age friend.My brother has a crush on her and she likes her because pinks her color and it complametes her and if you you dont like pinkinsh girly color.Well try a shaded pink shirt with a saying or a picture on it or just a cartoon bobyy jack shirt.And if you were jeans a blue shirt with somthing a little girly on it and skate board guys will stiill like you and I was a tomboy because I wanted to get boys and it worked but just to tell you I got less boys than a cherrleader.
The guys who liked me were really nerdy and didnt look cute at all! So where somthing that mades to fit a girls figure or somthing in the ' Junios' section and really it dosent mater what you were if you still want to be a tomboy to keep your tomboy style play somthing thats boys play or somthing thats really cool and instead of a sports bra where a padded one!Oh ya the ones a above rock on there advice to you could be u ' a girl' and be atomboy by liking boy stuff! Tell me If this is works and you understand! Bye

Do the opposite what you do such as you don’t wear skirt then wear it.
Hangout with girls if you don’t have make friends with girls
In the begging it will be difficult perhaps they will laugh on you but don’t care
After few weeks or month you will see the result

dont worry.. I was lthat way for a while.. try letting your hair down every once and a while. dont try to make friends with the popular kids. find the ordinary grils that will actually be your friend. STOP HANGING OUT WITH YOUR BROTHER IF YOU CAN! I have more guy friends than girl, don worry about it. about the guys not liking you.. I still have that problem. if the guys in your school are anything like mine, they want the cheerleader, and if their that vain, their not worth it. youll find someone, but try to be a little more flirtish around guys you think are cute.

look im a guy and know what people like if your a gangasta try baggy look if your a rocker witch I like try: tight pants,stud belt, hair in black mullet, band shirt,neack balls,big glasses,convers,any socks.=hot hot hot HOT!!!

You can keep being tomboy but
1. shave your legs
2. wear a bra, you dont feel anything without that??
3. Don't look (face) like a boy!!
If you want to be more girly, same like that(up) but you should have girly colours like pink and wear some accercories.

Hey!.. I use to be like you it was like a phase I went through. But it wasn't really a big deal when I started to wear 'girly' clothes people just change you know, looking back I don't even know when I started to become more girly, I use to hang with my bro and his mates but I also hung out with my girl mates too, I think it was gradual thing when I started to actually like clothes and now I'm into the whole fashion thing.

But I think you should start wearing a bra so it gets you use to them, if you don't like to shave you could wax, does your mum know what your going through? You could talk to her about wanting to have a girly day and go buy clothes and get facials done and stuff or what ever you want. But do what you think is most comfortable look at magazines and stuff and look at what fashion stlyes most appeal to you and go from there!

And hang with whoever you want! If its your brO hang with him! So just be yourself and have fun just don't be afraid to be girly now and again it fun all the make up and shopping!!

=) Have fun!!*

=) hayley

Ew im not a tomboy but I HATE pink! your clothes dont have to be pink, just girly

iused 2 be the some way but I changed ova the summer and I still can make boys cry just cause you change your look doesnt mean you have 2 change your whole personalty dont quit sports!!! I friends have done that and they regted it!!! you can like wear some jeans that are not baggy and are tight that like have sparkels on the butt they look hott on me lol and if you have natuly straight hair then just brush it real good if your hair super curly brush it and wear it down if your hair is wavy or kinnda curly then straigtin it or crunch it with gel and moose and wear some girlier shirts and just kinnda act girlier but dont be like awww I broke a nail I pisses me off when other girls do that!!! but when I got girlyer some of the guys that I play football with were like damn look at her and one of my guy friend became my boyfriend but hes a jerky boyfriend anyways shave and were a bra please!!!

be yourself. if you try to be something else you won't succed at all. and if people make fun of you then so be it don't listen to them. but if you really want this take it slowly and take small steps. try to wear a skirt with shaven legs and a cute top and may be do something cute with your hair. do your nails. and be organize. and also try to meet some new friends like girls and try to fit in. also don't do any burping or anything disgusting or that will make people run.
good luck

who cares about that s hit im a tomboy and I don't care just wear a bra because its so disgusting not to your nipples will show through your shirt and make your own guy friends I practically hang with all guys and about 3/5 of them like

I'm 19 and a tomboy. I got to college and most of my friends are male or girls I play sports with. Don't change for other people because one day you'll find people that will love you for who you are. And in terms of 'guys' (dating, etc) I couldn't get a date to save my life until junior year, and since then, I've always had someone. I shave my legs, and that's because I like them smooth, and bras b/c I do sports and I need sports bras to make sure I'm not 'all over the place'. I just went to a ska concert yesterday (streetlight manifesto) and practically all the girls there were just like you and me.. and happy about it

at 14 you really need a bra
hasnt youre mum suggested buying one???

awww kay.. you really NEED to wear a bra..even if yer a tom boy, you have 2 wear one still! put some makeup on.. and look on google videos if you dont know how. just buy some girly clothes...straighten yer hair..or put it up nice. if you wear baggy clothes get some tighter ones. hahaha TRY IT. trust me..it will make you look hooot.

1you dont have to shave them only if they are hairy =]
2theres nothing wrong to hang out with your bro and his friends
3nothing wrong with it
4okay .. you need to wear a bra lol but mabye if it feels uncomfortable try training bras or sports bras to start off . I used to hate bras and I'm younger than you but I got used to it and now I love em
5aw no1 likes you ? mabye ask yourself what you may be doing wrong for noone to like you
6ahh fk boys! they dont know what they want at 13-15 or w.e .. some of them are complete jerks . wait for a guy that thinks you are beautiful no matter what .. inside and out

1you dont have to shave them only if they are hairy =]
2theres nothing wrong to hang out with your bro and his friends
3nothing wrong with it
4okay .. you need to wear a bra lol but mabye if it feels uncomfortable try training bras or sports bras to start off . I used to hate bras and I'm younger than you but I got used to it and now I love em
5aw no1 likes you ? mabye ask yourself what you may be doing wrong for noone to like you
6ahh fk boys! they dont know what they want at 13-15 or w.e .. some of them are complete jerks . wait for a guy that thinks you are beautiful no matter what .. inside and out

1.maybe you should get a bra and if you dont to be too girlie get a sports bra
2.shve your legs and if you dont know how or what ever use an electric rasor or you the veet wich is th hair removal lotion
3.try alittl mke up like blush and curl you eye lashes or just curl your eye lashes
4.get some name brand clothes