I'm not sure if I want to have sex

Im not sure if I want to have sex I fell like im ready but I don't know but im kinda scared what should I do

I didnt lose mine till I was 18!!

I used to be taken the mick out of too...It was the best thing I ever did...I found an amaizn girlfriend who has looked after me!!!

You are not your cousin...you chose what you want to do and when babe!

Hun,

You will know when your ready...it will be sooo cool...just dont feel pressured!

You should be made to feel special before even letting someone have the privilage of getting near you!!!

There is no rush at all!!

x

THANX BUT I NEED JUST A LIL MORE

The fact that you are scared means you are NOT ready. Nobody ever regretted waiting!

Agreed!!!

Is this your boyfriend yeah or a random...

no my boyfriend is at bootcamp for a few weeks but I want to surprise him but I rllly love him

Babe the way to a mans heart isint sex! You showing affection and lots of cuddles is...If that is what makes him happy, he will let you know and if its right your be ready!!

=-) YEA BUT MOST OF MY FRIENDS ARE PRESSURING ME LIKE A FEW WEEKS AGO WE HAD A PARTY AND WE WERE ALL WASTED THEY FORCED US IN A CLOSET AND TOOK HIS PANTS AND UNDERWARE AWAY

Ahhh that is just a bit of banter...If people know your scared/shy or havent done it...I had the same treatment...trust me...when your alone with your boyfriend it will be natrual...no one can force you do do anything...just smile at your friends, they dont mean to make you feel worried!!

WELL TRY TELLIN THEM THAT EVEN MY 12 YEAR OLD COUSIN ISNT A VIRGIN AND I JUST I WANT TO KNOW IF I SHOULD DO IT OR NOT OR IF WHAT IM FEELING ABOUT HIM ISNT REAL

THANX BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT MY FRIENDS

Laugh!!! lol

Simple sweet...At the end of the day, they did it becuase they were told to do it by friends...not as they love there man!

Show your different and hold your head up proud...!!! x

well there not actually the dumbest people in the world theyve been right about everything I've ever done

its natural 2 be nervous it doesnt nessacarilly mean you arnt ready I think that if you really want 2 do it you shud do it as long as your careful and you shud sit down with your friends and talk 2 them about it. by the way how old are you and your boyfriend? if you need more help fun mail me!

You are wanting to have sex for all the WRONG reasons!
Benefits of Abstinence

~Peace of mind in your life and future relationships, and marriage.

~More self-respect and more respect for each other and respected by other people.

~Always remember, in a healthy relationship, respect precedes love, and premarital sex only throws away your self respect and your partner's.

~You enter marriage with a more positive outlook and without carrying emotional baggage.

~Personal freedom for both of you and your (future) marriage partner.

~Significantly better chance in having more satisfying and more stable marriage.

~Longer lasting relationship. Premarital sex surprisingly breaks up more dating couples than any other factor.

~No comparing or being compared sexually in marriage.

~No worries about pregnancy and STDs.

~Less worries about bad reputation.

~It's a fact that persons and couples who have premarital sex are more likely to have extramarital affairs as well.

~Premarital sex often fools a person into marrying someone who really isn't right for them.

~You don't have to put yourself under someone else's mercy not to reject you. It's still a fact, that the more "experienced" guys and girls are generally less desirable and less respected as dating or marriage partners.

~Realize there is a 98 percent chance you will never marry the person you date in high school, so it is always better to keep yourself pure for the right person, that is your future wife or husband.

I agree with greg but hes not a girl and I think that there is far more risks 4 girls thaan guys when we lose are virginity im a virgin 2 so if you want 2 talk about it can funmail me 2 because I think that it is a delicate subject

Love xxlolxx