Sex for the first time

does sex for the first time hurt the girl?
I pretty much know the answer to this but like how bad does it hurt..?
im nervous but I told my boyfriend we could have sex because I want to. im just incredibly nervous. anything I can do to make it feel...

better?

honey, you'll be fine. I had my first time about a month ago. Didn't even hurt me at all. don't do it unless you really love the person though. make sure you use protection. And be careful is all! : ]

wow cvillechick103...you dont read other posts... ok first off, yes it can. it depends how much the vaginal muscles were worked and stretched(from fingering or excersize, etc.) and that will decide the outcome of the pain. I'm a guy so I am not really sure but from the awnsers I have seen from girls is that it hurts in the beginning then gets better unless the vaginal muscles were never worked then it hurts because ALL the muscles are being really stretched and torn. so basically it all depends on the previous sexual experiences that will determine the pain. anyways funmail me if you want more advice on anything ^_^.

~DarthornX

well if youve ever fingered yourself or have been fingered it wont hurt. I havent had sex but I've read lots of stuff online and I hear that the most.

Depends on how your body down there is hun
It's not unbearable if thats what ya mean hehe...It probably will hurt a little after all your first time at sex is breaking your hymen, unless its been broken through horseriding or what not. Anyway be happy and relaxed if its with someone youuu loveee :D
Have fun