Sexually active too young?

ok wats up with 12 and 13 yr olds being sexually active
wanting to finger their girlfriend, get fingered by their boyfriend's, give blow jobs, recieve blow jobs, handjobs, sex etc etc
I want the perspective of people who are no more than 14 and want to...

be sexually involved with someone
I could say wats wrong it for hours but I want your views on it
why do you feel you should be involved with sexual activities/sexual intercourse
why cant you wait
why do you assume if someone says they want to finger you then they love u
or if someone is dying to have sex with you then they love u
please tell me why its so important for you pre-teens to be like this??
why cant you just be happy and hang out with friends and concentrate on your school work and education.
oh yeah and who also agrees with me and thinks its not right..

I agree 1000% percent with what you're saying. I'm 18 and I don't do that stuff. I think kids should wait til their atleast 16. No younger. but then again...they're still going to do what they want to do. They also fall in "love" quick and become uber sprung. It's not right, but they don't realize it.

I watched the Tyra Show today and it was on this exact subject. Kids said they do it because of peer pressure and also because they see it on tv, in magazines, etc.

stephanie is not compleatly right but shes got the idea.

im 13. I have never done anything sexually but a kiss wit my boyfriend-crush but we do these things bcause its nice to feel loved. also when your attracted to the person you want to do these things.

also 12 and 13 yr olds get horny 2 ya know

Maybe its the parents fault! Lack of attention to their children so they go looking for it somwhere else...when your lonely and feel left out, or want so bad for someone to love you or hell even acknowledge the fact that you exsist...because they are obviously lacking that attention else where.
You go looking for it. If a guy says he loves you or wants ANY part of you its a great feeling...no matter what age... and maybe the parents should sit their kids down and lay down some ground rules..have the "sex talk"...ya know?

I know when I was 12 and 13 I wanted to do that stuff.
but that was only becasue I felt like it would make me seem older.

and trust me it doesnt.
I mean im 14 but I've learned a lot in the past year. if anyone 12, 13, even 14 and younger is reading this and is wanting to do these things. dont. trust me.
I've done minor things but im very very very mature for my age. you probally think that about yourself as well but your probally not.

instead of worrying about growing up so fast just focus on enjoying life. its so much worth it in the end : )

im 14, and I dont fully agree. seriously, it doesnt matter how old you are we can all expirence love. and we do sexual things because honestly we want to its not because we think it means the person love us. I dont believe there is anything wrong with doing anything sexual at my age because if you think about it your going to do it sooner or later whats the difference if you do something know verses doing something later.

NICE SUBJECT... BUT WHAT YA'LL YOUNGSTERS NEED 2 REALIZE & UNDERSTAND HER QUESTION MORE THOROUGHLY, BECAUSE YA'LL STILL DON'T HAVE A GREAT REASON WHY. I know 1 THING THO ITS NOT LOVE, 4 DA LAST TIME IT LUST. YA'LL HAVE NO IDEA AND ITS JUST CURIOUSITY. AND IF YA'LL FEEL I'M WRONG, THEN ANSWER WHY ARE you SO INTERESTED IN BEING WANTED/HAVING SEX, OR FEELING LIKE YA'LL BELONG 2 DA MATURE LIFE? ESPECIALLY,WHEN YA DON'T know S*** ABOUT IT. YA DON'T HAVE A STABLE JOB, YA DON'T know DA OUTCOMES OF WHAT PREGNANCY DO 2 YA YOUNG SOULS,OR HOW SICK IT SOUNDS 2 BE ONLY 12-14/15 DOING DA NASTY. YA DO NEED 2 FOCUS ON SCHOOL BECAUSE SEX IS NOT 'ONLY' PASSION/AFFECTION, IT'S ALSO A 'CAUSE OF AN EFFECT' RESPONSIBILITY(FINANCIALLY & EMOTIONALLY).

I became sexually active at 12 when my best mate showed me a sex ed book that her mum gave her and she told me how to rub myself and to try it and I have been mas*urbat*ng ever since. I'm 14. I want pleasure but I dont want sex yet and I dont want to give bj's or hj's or be frigged. I wouldnt mind being rubbed by a boyfriend who I have been with for quite a long time but I'm still a little nervous about that, but I am ok with me doing it my self. I want to wait for the right guy some I love very much and loves me too and wait for the right moment. I want perfect sex, something romantic and passionate. ^^ and I want to be at least the legal age!