Sexual urges

I just turned 18 and started college. I'm starting to have sexual urges, but I dont want to lose my virginity. Girls have been asking me if I want to have sex with them, but I don't know if I even like girls that way. I was thinking that I might like...

experimenting with girls or start having phone sex with guys. If I do have phone sex where could I go to find guys who are interested in that kind of thing? Any tips would also be helpful.

If you have sexual urges and you want to stay a virgin, it's best that you take care of it yourself manually or with a vibrator.

Phone sex is pointless, and if you have no sexual experience it might be hard for you to describe what you want to do with a guy that will convince him that you're for real. Besides, usually only couples who are apart for some time resort to phone sex.

You can experiment with girls if you like, but it doesn't mean that they won't take away your virginity. This depends on your definition of virginity. Is it the breaking of your hymen, or the breaking of your hymen by a boy/someone meaningful to you? Does it include penetration (penile or artificial) or fingering that can also break your hymen?

Until you work all this out, I don't think you can satisfy your urges.

You can still have a boyfriend and still be a virgin, by the way. Just tell him that you want to stay a virgin, so he can still please you in other ways.

Are you male or female?

you could satisfy your own urges until you plan to lose your virginity. Life is full of temptations and its how we react to them and stay strong to our morals that we choose to keep them or let them go. My advice is dont experiment with girls because it could either turn you on even more and give you more urges to do it with a guy or actually do the opposite and you might not even like your experience that you might never want any sexual things at all

If you have sexual urges dont be to quick and lose it to anyone ... I mean like go and actually find someone you would like to be with and actually make that night special... If you are unsure of what you like I would experiment with different things. Like makeout with girls and boys and see which one turns you on the most.