Does he not want to have sex?

I'm 13 and I want to have a sexual relationship with my boyfriend but it's like he don't want to WHAT SHOULD I DO???

It is really normal for a 13-year-old boy or girl to think about sex a lot, be curious about sex and even want to try having sex. Sometimes these feelings may be overwhelming.

Some very powerful hormones have started to surge through your body by the time you’re 13. These hormone surges begin during puberty and have probably just started recently for you. These intense sexual feelings are something almost everyone experiences at some point. Some feel them as young as 13 and others when they are older. The average onset of puberty has dropped to 11 years and 9 months for girls, and 13 years and 1 month for boys. Some argue that this may account for earlier forays into sex. Puberty is by no means a marker of emotional, psychological and social maturity sufficient to enable a young person to think through the implications of having sex.

Here is what is really important: Even though you may feel turned on or horny, it doesn’t mean you are ready to have sex. You aren’t. There is a lot more to having a good sexual experience than just feeling desire or being curious about what sex might feel like. It is really, really important to also have a healthy and trusting relationship with a partner before you have any kind sexual experience.
It is also important to understand all the good things and bad things that can result from having sex. Sex is just one of many ways to share intimacy with a partner and it has the most serious consequences, like getting pregnant or getting a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

13 year olds don't understand that in order for sex to be a good thing, you need two people who are mature enough to really love and trust each other. When you don't have that, sex is bad and leaves the girl feeling like she's been used.

dont preshure him into it if he doesnt want to and you push him he could dump you plus your way too young

You're not ready for sex until you can take on the responsibility of protecting yourself (and your partner) from pregnancy and STDs/STIs. If you can't do that then you have no business having sex.

He may be afraid of getting you pregnant etc - which is a really heavy burden for any 13 year old.

In the mean time, learn to play it solo - mas*urbat*on that is. When you know how to effectively give yourself an org**m it'll be much easier when you have a partner.

xox
Sika

you are 13 years old and should not even be thinking about sex...
think about it?! what would you do if by any case you were to get pregnant?
you are waaayy to young to handle responsabilities like that

If you're only 13 why wud you even want to?where da hell is your self-repect.Maybe he's smart and knows he aint ready yet.

he doesnt want t get you pregnant

atleast he aint dumb like u. f*ckin lil kid.