Sex with my older boyfriend

My boyfriend wants me 2 have sex with him but hes not a virgin and im a virgin im 16 and hes 28 and I don't know how I shud be like because hes much older than me please help me

Ps in england sex is legal when your 16

your really super young for a man thats almost 30! you have to understand that first, his mind and level of thinking is completely different from urs. He will want things that your not able to give him. your emotional status and his are not on the same levels. And, no, dont have sex w/him. you should never feel pressured by anyone and never have sex just to have it. you will regret it and you will be the one suffering. Another thing, I cant believe he is dating you at your age. What does that tell you about him?? He obviously cant date anyone around his age cause he has to have control and dating a young teenage girl like urself gives him a lot more power than you think. you should b dating people around 16-19 max. I also think its illegal for him to date u. He could go to jail. Do your parents know about this? And I'm sure you have feelings etc...but this relationship isnt going to last. I hate to tell you that but dont waste your virginity on someone so much older than you and someone that is pressuring u. Hes not going to wait either. Funmail me if you want to talk some more ok. Dont have sex. your not ready.

Ultimately this decision is in your hands. However, it sounds like he's kinda pressuring you into something you're not quite ready for. Trust me, if he cares about you, he will be prepared to wait until you're ready. Relationships should be based on mutual respect, and if he doesn't respect how you feel, there's going to be an abuse of power.

this is your descition but I would suggest waiting. you never mentioned if you loved him. do u? keep in mind the majority of teens dont know what love is although many seem to think so. but if you do decide to then remember to use a condom and plenty of spermicide but im sure he knows this especially considering he is in his 20s. dont let him force you to do anything if he does then you know he doesnt love you enough to have sex with u. I would test him first and tel him your not ready yet even if you are. and trust me hun if you are asking us you are not ready yet. hope I helped and need further advice funmail me ~kaitlyn~

sex changes everything. and though it may be legal and england he is still too old. not sayng that you dont luv him and he doesnt luv u! its just that it can screw up a relationship and I wudnt do it if I were u. also he shudnt be pressuring you to do anything you might b uncomfortable with; your so young and he wud be the one getting the plesure out of it, not u. get t? sum of my friends had sex young and they said they way they felt the day after was like they were used. my advice is not to give n.
best of wishes and good luck!!

Don't do it... and stop seeing him.

Regardless of legality: A guy wanting to take the virginity of a teenage girl almost HALF his age???

This indicates emotional immaturity on his behalf, and potentially other personality problems as well. He clearly has issues, and hopefully you'll realize it, before its too late.

If you feel to be ready to make sex then an older and practiced boy is the best for your first time. Then you may do it with younger boys too, who fit to your age.

he has no good intentions hun...