Sex toy!?!?!?!

All I do is have sex with my boyfriend!!! It is not fun. I mean he is in me right now! (I am on a laptop). I feel like a sex toy. Should I just keep letting him do this? OR should I tell him no. He kind of gets mad when I say no..so I say yes. I love him...

a lot. He is so nice to me. He really cares about me. What should I do?

SEX ISNT LOVE!!Love and sex are NOT the same thing!! Any guy who truly cares about you, would never push you into sex. Sex is a huge deal, no matter what some people say. For most girls, sex is not just a physical act. A girl can get very emotionally attached to a person she has sex with, even if that person doesn't deserve her love. Unfortunately, some guys see sex as totally physical and don't get their emotions involved. They set a timeline for having sex - like your boyfriend is doing - and make an ultimatum. The thing is, by doing that, your boyfriend isn't treating you like a person. He's just saying, he needs to have sex with "his girlfriend" by a certain date. But you're not just "the girlfriend" - you are your own person, with your own feelings and needs and comfort zone. Think about your body as a valuable treasure - something priceless and rare and incredibly special. It should not be shared with just anyone who treats you nicely, even if you really like him. Rather, you should save that kind of intimate physical connection for a guy who proves by his actions over a LONG time - not just a couple of months - that he truly loves you and respects your feelings and wants to be together with you for the long-term. How will you know if your boyfriend loves you this way? Most importantly, that he will be patient with you setting a slow pace for sexual involvement. Generally, a boy who will care for you after sex is also a guy who will wait a long time for sex without pressuring you. A guy who loves you will treat you with respect, listen to your feelings, put you first in his life, be proud of including you in activities with his friends and family, cheer you up when you are down, and show his love in many other such ways. If your boyfriend is in a hurry for sex, that is a sign that he won't treat you respectfully afterward. 1)Take a deep breath and say these words: "No, I don't want to have sex". 2)Don't be embarrassed or think you will sound immature by saying no to sex. Choosing not to have sex is VERY mature. It would be immature to be pressured into something you don’t want! 3)If he tells you, "If you loved me you'd do it”, come back at him with, "If you loved me you'respect me". Sex is NOT the only way to show your love for another person.
This guy needs to either be dumped or put in his place!!! There are a lot of guys out there that wont treat you like a sex toy!!!

tell him to stop

if you don't feel conftable with it tell him to stop

this question really sounds totally bogus "I mean he is in me
right now! (I am on a laptop). " if you dont want something. dont do it. and he doesnt sound like he is in love. he sounds like a found a sex toy

umm if he gets mad than thats pathetic. if you dont want it dont do it he should respect you! dont be his toy..

I agree, sounds like a bogus question. Who is playing online while having s*x? On the off chance it is real, NO means NO, everytime. If he doesn't take no for an answer, he is a jerk, and you should move on.

uh your retarded get a life

guh,if you don't want it,tell him 2 get de fuk off! you shouldnt have 2 b forced into screwin him! & if he don't like,tell him he can leave it. tell him,u don't want 2,& if he doesnt respect that,den its time yall tlk. he may not b de rite 1.

No means no. When you have sex with someone without consent it IS considered rape. But you actually agreed to it. Forced sex is a type of rape. Any counsel or wise adult will tell you the same thing. It is considered if a husband forces his wife to have sex with him claiming it is "his right". I mean, yes it is. But if she doesnt want to have sex with you then that is HER right. I personally know a woman who asked for a divorced on grounds of rape. That her husband would give her the silent treatment or threaten to cheat on her if she doesnt have sex with him whenever he wanted, however he wanted. The judge granted her a divorce immediately.

<P>The husband is currently in trail for rape.

<P>So you see, this is a serious matter if a man is being legally charged for making his wife have sex with him. To be honest, you should not be with him if he doesnt consider your feelings when you say you dont want to do it.

<P>Good luck,
<P>Emotive

OK YOUR CRAZY!!! SEX ISTHE BEST THING EVER INVENTED, AND I DONT KNOW WHAT I'D DO WITHOUT IT!!! BUT, SAY YES!!! YOU'LL HAVE SEX a lot, AND YOU'LL GET USED TO IT!! IT'LL BE GREAT!!

its easy!!

just stop doin it!!

duh ...

just say ... no I dont want to

period

thatz messed up

say no
say I AM NOT are TOY DUDE

kairi22 is an idiot. Lmao. really she is.