Is this too big an age gap?

Does age really matter in a relationship? I'm 18 and seeing a 15 year old girl, she's really mature and smart and has a lot of sense in direction as to what she wants to do in life, Her personality is really attractive, Iz it too big an age gap?

I'm not sure about this whole 'age gap' situation. I get a bit confused myself. I have seen older guys. However I do think that sometimes the older person will expect more things and may be more mature than the younger person.

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jailbait

haha, JAILBAIT like my hott friend tenacious said.. BUT. if you insist. as long as no sexual relations occur, and you find her sensible,and all of that MUSH. lol. den have a great time wit it. :]

the legal sex age here in New Zealand iz 16, is it still that bad??

the legal sex age here in New Zealand iz 16, is it still that bad??

yes 15 to too young unless your not interested in haveing sex which you probably are so its a bad situation for the girl unless you both want sex

I wouldnt reccomend it because thats illegal if you do anythign sexual!
like jamie lynn spears and her boyfriend have to get married or else he's going to jail for rape because shes 16 and he's 18.
just be careful about that

No. It's not that bad. Just don't do anything ''phyisical'' with her. She;'s just a kid. But just kissing her, and going out, is fine.

No its not that bad that was the age difference between me and my ex , and now im fooling around with a 19 yr old and im only 15..
so no I dont think its bad

Dear achillesthemighty,
When in your teens age is a big factor. As you get older this will not pose so much of a problem. As for teens even a year or two can make a huge difference. At 18 a teen starts wanting more Independence, will bar hop, be on look out for that special relationship, looking for some solid ground. At 15 a teen should be casual dating. Making friends to just chill with. There are two very different mind sets with this much of an age difference. It may not sound like a lot 3 years but it is when we take in account the males maturity. He isn't looking for that special bond or long term relationship with someone that much younger. It gets difficult to explain to their friends your age and to bring them to social functions.
Sue...good luck

Well we're not having sex but we are still hooking up and stuff, she turns 16 in 2 mnths so I plan on waiting till she turns 16 does that make a difference?(16 been the age of consent)

it is a bit of a gap but its ony 3 years as long as you have the parents aproval she is not jailbate