Relationship problems

Asked by pandycakes13 4 months ago, 8 answers.

Im in love with my boyfriend. but my dad doesnt want me to have a boyfriend. me and my boyfriend decided to run away at night and meet on a bridge. He always wanted to kiss me so I granted his wish. It was me and his first kiss ever!!! When we were done...

he decided to take me home but before we could even get off the bridge my dad caught us. Now ever since then my dads been asking me where I am going and who I am talkin to. And hes always mean to my boyfriend. Now I fear that our relationship is going down a steep hill. I cried all yesterday and practically yelled at my dad. I feel he doesnt trust me with boys and thinks ill get pregnant.I am 13 bout to turn 14 on august 8 and I dont know what to do!!! HELP please!!!

Answered by layashea on Aug 02, 2008, 03:04PM
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do you blame your dad for not trusting you after you snuck out,
if you were him, would you trust you.

try sitting down and telling him you really like him,
and dont want to have to sneek around.

Answered by yukina on Aug 02, 2008, 03:17PM
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You can't blame your dad for not trusting you. How would you feel if you knew your daughter was sneaking out at night? A caring parent would freak and panic that something could happen to they're own child. So its no wonder why he is getting over protective over you and your only 13. I think that instead of sneaking around, comfront your dad that you have feeling's towards your boyfriend. If he doesn't approve of your boyfriend, its only because he love's you and worried about what might happen. Also if your thinking about running away from your own parents, I think thats a pretty idiotic move. Only because it will cause more problems and your parents could never trust you again.

Answered by pandycakes13 on Aug 02, 2008, 03:31PM
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my mom knew I was going to meet my boyfriend. I told her cause she trusts me. my dad doesnt live with me. we dont really get along. and stop takin my dads side. if you knew what he does to me and my brother you would think he was a monster. im not really around my dad cause hes mean. he only comes once in a while. he cant even remember my birthday or how old I am. so f*ck that he doesnt care. he just likes to make my world worse.

Answered by kimberly080606 on Aug 02, 2008, 03:53PM
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How can you blame your dad for not trusting you after you had snuck out? If you were a parent, then you'd feel the same way. And slow down you're only 13 years old. I can understand that you like this boy but if you really want to be with him then help your dad to understand the situation better but he's not going to approve of anything if you disobey him again. And if he's set his mind on not allowing you to have a boyfriend then I'm sorry, but you have to follow his rules. That's your father and you are young as hell. Trust me, you won't be with that boy forever.

Answered by pandycakes13 on Aug 02, 2008, 04:00PM
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age doesnt matter. my mom went through the same thing. ill spit on my dad before I let him tell me what to do. I only listen to my mom. I hear the same thing everytime with people on here "your to young" dont cha think I know that... you guys can really bring someone down -sigh-

Answered by curiousmuch on Aug 02, 2008, 05:13PM
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all fathers are over protective your dad needs to accept your growing up why dont you kiss and all that stuff at school where you dad cant see you and talk on msn just until your old enough to leave home

Answered by fau on Aug 02, 2008, 06:51PM
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well if you know whats best then why ask these questions ? if people are trying to advise you and you are throwing it back in ther faces people will start to be mean, and how are they bringing you down really? they are only trying to help you but you arent listening you need to seriously grow up

Answered by xsophiexceex on Aug 03, 2008, 01:29PM
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ok first of im 14 august the 6th so yaaayyy anyway... I dont want to sound horrible, but think, you nearly RAN AWAY, would you trust your daughter if she tried to run away? just give your dad time, sit down and talk to him, give him a hug and tell him you love him, say your growing up, your a teenager, you need to learn more about life and ask him to be nicer to your boyfriend, say you both agreed on this it wasnt all him (whether it was or not) anyway, good luck

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