Relationship help

I've been with this guy for 3 years. We have one child. I am 19 years old. well, up to now we were engaged. being stupid me at the beginning of the relationship I really liked him and decided that anything that seemed remotely bad about me I didn't tell...

me. I wanted to make me sound great. Well, I left out a few things about myself. and when we separated I didn't tell him I saw someone or anything. I had when we were separated he had had sex with someone. He says that wasn't true but he did do this with someone after he found out I was dating someone. We started talking and I told him a bunch of stuff that wasn't true at the time because I wanted to hurt him and I felt intimidated. Well, that went on for a while. I thought it would just stop and he would learn not to take me for granted. Well, finally I got up the guts to tell him it wasn't the truth but there are some things in my past you should know about. He didn't believe that I lied to him about that stuff. He said it was humanly impossible. He says you can't rub on someone without doing stuff. I late found he had had sex with one of our co workers and he said was just a friend. He say s this is all my fault. He says he still loves me so much about 3 days ago and today he is like I can't be with you because I know your lieing. I don't want to be lied too you can't be telling the truth. I want to be with you for the rest of my life but I can't trust you I know your lieing too me. We are about to have a child and its been like this before and we got back together. Advice??????????

you can trust someone without loving them, but you can't love someone you don't trust... well actually you can lose the trust or have the trust lost of someone you love. the 2 of you need to sit down and talk together and see what you both want, if it's even each other. You'll be ok raising your child or children on your own and it's better to be in a good relationship, or to be alone then to be in a bad relationship and use children as an excuse.

Good advice arabfilly! Well, the situation is complicated, so you'd better reserve a full day to discuss openly about your problems with your...guy. Mention this: truth, child, future, love.
Good luck!