"relationship"

well for starts I've been with someone for about 3 years...and well on new years I found out he was cheating on me...I gave him all hell...but since then its been hell for me emotionally because I would think he learned from the 1st time but no 2 months...

later I got into his yahoo account and he was associating with another girl she send him pics so that was a bit desturbing...there were about 2 other girls at that point he was talkin to as well but this one in particualr he told he liked..and well anyone in a long relationship seeing that the person that they have been with for that long is writting that they like that other person would grow angry and infuriated...so were 6 months down the same line its argument after argument and I know what I should do but its hard becuase I guess being with him for so long there is an attatchment but he swpre he wants to work things out I really dont believe him of course not I into his myspace and YES myspace lol its not myspace thats the trouble maker its the people who have it and the way they act upon it but anyways well hes about 21 friend requestin lil 17yr olds that he claims he knows he deleted em so I wouldnt get upset...so I saw he wrote one of them and well hey I got mad of course but like I said theres just this little string holding up together and its not that thick of a thread sigh...I figure hes just young minded and isn't ready for a relationship but hey why not let me go... I know the responses I will get lol but I would like to hear from all of you on what I should do Thank you

What a jerk. I'm sorry. But if any boy ever did that to me I'd be like yeah. Screw you, I deserve better. And go find a better guy. It doesn't matter how long you've been with him if he's going to disrespect your relationship and commitment then your just wasting your time being with him. It's as simple as that.

From the sounds of it though, you know what you need to do. But just won't, or haven't. And it's so obvious that you deserve to be with someone way better, that's totally crazy about you. He won't change. As much as he says he will, he won't. You just need to move on at this point. Good Luck, (:

Dump this loser because he is not ready to grow up and as long as you stay with him you will only keep on getting hurt. If someone does not learn from the first time, they will not learn at all.