Ready to experiment?

Ok, Here’s the thing, if it sounds crude in areas I‘m sorry. My fiancee and I were talking about experimenting with different things. He mentioned a threesome. Not exactly a threesome, he just wants to watch “girl on girl” because he always dreamed about...

it or what not, and perhaps jumping in on me, he has no desire to sleep with anyone else. I am not Bi in any means ,completely straight, I’m just kind of curious I guess you can say. I’ve been thinking about it, and I’m pretty ok with it because we both feel comfortable with ourselves and our relationship. So here’s a couple questions. For reassurance that I’m right about this..is it ok to feel experimental with no attachments, such as being bi ? …What would you do if you were in this situation, or have you been in it already?

Thanks. =]]

You need to start reading Savage Love ASAP.

Yes, it's perfectly okay to experiment with whatever you want to do in order to fully enjoy your sex life, and frankly, you really have nothing to worry about because "watching my girlfriend with another girl" is on the LOW end of kinky. It's about as tame as feathers and whipped cream. Wait until the ball gags and nipple clamps come out. It'll blow your mind.

I've been in this situation a couple of times, once with someone we met on the internet, once with the wife of a friend, and both times it turned out very well, with no regrets and no awkwardness afterward. The key to making that happen was LOTS of communication. You need to talk about everything beforehand -- what her role will be, what your boyfriend will be doing, how to handle things afterward, what you want his and her relationship to be. If you set lots of ground rules and leave nothing to chance, there's no reason you won't have a wonderfully eye-opening experience.

Sounds extreme to me, im not sure if I myself could handle another MAN naked next to me at all. It all depends on the person really, but the wanting to experiment is part of human nature plain and simple, it's all dependent on what you will and what you will not do.