Question for the men

Do single (and straight) guys ever really just want to be friends with a girl (who's single and straight as well)??? Honest answers please, thanks!

Yes honestly! (im straight and single) I share a friend relationship and we help each other out like normal friends do with everyday tasks and emotional stress we all endure. Women also have a more sensitive and direct perspective on certain situation then men do, which is very needed sometimes no matter how tough we seem. Also I feel we as men give women that more push forward attitude when they need it aswell, we also offer a strong sense of saftey being naturally bigger then women from other jerk men out there. Hope it helped answer your question

yea I have loeads of single female friends and im a single guy. I admit I did have strong feelings for some of them at one point but I got over it and now were really good friends, we help each other out a lot and were alays there 4 eachother.

Sure

Friendship with a person of the oposite sex can be mutually benefitial and fulfilling. What makes it work best is that the sex thing is discussed and agreed upon. If the guy understands that then there won't be any emotional pressure on him to win anything. The same for the gal. She can relax and be herself with ease. It's a great type of relationship. When either one gets involved with someone else and that is physical then the non physical relationship should seperate. That's hurtful for both but that's life.

Yes almost deffinatly I have loads of friends that are girls that I have no interest in an actual relationship with (nor them in me) it's quite common not all guys just want sex some of us just want friendships and people to talk to.

I can honestly say that I do.

My best friends have always been girls, and I wouldn't trade them for anything.

That being said, when I am interested in a relationship with a girl, that interest stays for a long time. (Even if she isn't interested.) I try to be the best friend that I can, but a lot of the time it, just tears me up inside. In that way, I suspect that guys are different than girls (although I can't say for sure because I've never been a woman, so I don't really know what its like).

I will also say that it is a lot easier to be friends with girls if I am in a relationship. That way I know that there is a limit to how far I can go in a relationship with another girl. There is a line that I know I can't cross without serious consequences.

In the end, I'm just looking for a good, virtuous woman (no, I'm not trying to hit on you, although I do love your name). I want someone who I can have deep connection with, and who will be willing to call me on to holiness.