should an 12 year old be allowed to wear 4 or 5 inch heels?

Should an 12 year old be allowed to wear 4 or 5 inch heals even if she is tall and can walk in them?

I do not think so because the girl is more than likely too young to realize what she is provoking out of the surrounding guys, and until shes old enough to date she should not be allowed to wear such clothing, including shoes

I think so. I was allowed 2. wats wrong if she can walk in them and everything?

I personally dont think they should girls now grow up WAY to fast let them be lil girls til there atleast 14-15 and I may be sounding stupid coming form a 22 yr old but I didnt get "privilages" until I was 16 and I am damn glad I didnt just because when I did I knew how to appreciate it and not go STUPID thanks

Well im 14 and I am and have been for the past few years alllowed to dress as I please. Its not as if im going to out to clubs or going anywhere dangerous or anything so I dont see why not.

its really something thats up to you
some people will judge you for it and some people wont
but if your comfortable and like wearing them then go for it
its your decision

I think it Depends on your surroundings like if you live in a bad neighbor hood then no of course not, but if you live in a normal neighborhood then yeah. But if you live in a good/great neighborhood it might be disturbing to most of the townsfolk.

I agree with uberalex. what kind of message is she sending out when she wears something like that?

nooo

it depends on what shes wearing them w/.If shes wearing a mini skirt of course not!But w/ jeans or pants it would be ok.as long as she can walk in them.

yea I dont see a problem with it...there just shoes.

No thats how you get older mens eye..trust me

No way
12 years old is wayyy too young that is like early middle school
and why would she want to wear them all the time anyway? wouldnt she get tired?

no. definately not. aside from the catching older mens eye thing, at twelve yeard old, a girl is not fully developed, her bones have not finished forming and it can completely screw up her back.

I also have a huge problem with the clothing and stuff currently being designed for young girls. I dont think its ok for them to dress like they are adults for the simple fact that they are not adults. They dont have to rush through their childhood, when its over they will regret not taking the time to just be kids. They wont get another opportunity. Haha, I feel old now even though im only 21!

their is no prob wearin high heels shyt im 14 and been wearin dem 4 bout 2 year and they don't really catch older dudes eyes there shoes..but make sure they aint stripper shoes tho..then that will send the rong message

I dont think she should , as shes only 12 and she still needs to grow up and shes still a child and heals shouldnt be a issue at this age it should be a issue at 15 up wards.
sorry if it sounded mean.

well sure she should be allowed to wear them!
I just hope that she gives you a cut of what she will make workin' the streets.

actually, high heels have been linked to overworked or injured leg muscles, osteoarthritis of the knee and low back pain.
you are the voice of reason and make the rules for your child. I can't imagine this even being considered.
I would also hope that you would explain to your daughter that a woman's worth should not to be equated with her looks.
intelligence and integrity should be her "fashion" and you must help her understand this.
we need to raise and support strong, independent women and help to steer them from the "paris hilton" school of thought.

I think she should there just shoes its not like she's walking around naked geeze seriously and I don't 2 why ^^ you had 2 bring paris into this 4 your fyi she's my idol and if she made mistakes good shell learn 4rm them were all human gosh!

heels, no big deal. as long as the shirts aren't low cut and the skirts aren't short. nothing else really matters. heels aren't risque, it just depends the rest of the outfit. besides, after she wears those one time, she'll hate them. they're painful!

The question is why does she want to where them? She will have plenty of tme whenshe is older.

She's really young, and maybe guys would get the wrong idea...