Problems at home.

Hey everyone..
I was just wandering..
My dad has this new girlfriend.. But I do not like her..
I didnt talk to her for 6 months. Then I thought I would be nice..
And anyway life goes on and I like do everything for her. But she has 4 other kids to...

her ex husband and one to my dad but everytime I do something for her she backstabbs me and says I do nothing and her kids do more then I do.. But I am there for my younger brothers sake & my dad but she just seems to think its kool and I cant take being abused every night by her: what should I do? Can anyone help?
My mum also lives in a different state so its hard to get there..

Talk to your dad about how you feel. Write down specific point with examples so he knows you aren't being dramatic. I'm sure he will make an effort to keep the peace.

keep a journal of what goes on ex. what you do then her reactions...when you do it...ect.. then go and talk to your dad about what is going on and show him your journal

I have tried to a certain point..
but my dad is just sick of it ..
so I dont no what to do ..
I have tried to keep a journal but that didnt work..
I just got in trouble for it..
my dad takes some things to consideration but with others he doesnt..
because he is sick of fighting..
most of these fights started because she trys to rule my life when she isnt my birth mother..
but also because her daughter is 12 and she doesnt get the same treatment as I do..
she thinks that she is 20 not 12..
her mother continuosly fights with my dad over it the reason for that is is because my dad is sticking up for me!
but.. he is really hurt in the inside because some days she just treats my dad like if he wsa dirt but others you cant get her off him..
but my dad wont do anything as he has a child to her and he loves her to death..
HELP!! I really dislike her! but I want to do the right thing by my dad!

have a talk with this woman. point out the abusive things shes done to you, and ask her not to do them anymore. if shes the least bit mature, shell stop.

well nirvana fan im sorry but this doesnt work I have tried everything!
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you need to go outside of your family...try talking to a counselor and if it gets serious...go talk to the police...if your family cant help you try talking to someone else like you bestfriends parents...

I would but I have had bad experiences with councellors.
I do not trust them
I dont want to get the police involved my dad will hate me..
yer I suppse my best friend s parents is a great idea thankyou snk99
xx

exactly what deos she do to you?? if your dad deosnt believe you get a tape recorder or a video camera and hide it then youll have proof and he cant say your bieng over dramtic. also maybe you should tell your real mom? or a adult you really trust

I tell my mum..
but I always get in trouble for telling her..
I have been caught with that so many times..
so im not trying that again..