Pre-marital sex a sin?

Ok so I know it's a sin and that sex should be saved until your married. But what if you have sex and you know deep in your heart that the man your making lvoe too is seriously the one.. Don't ask me how I know if he's the one.. I just do well thankfully...

he feels the same way. Anyways if you only ever make love to him and evenually do get married is that still a sin? Im probably going to get yes across the board but I thought I'd put it out there =)

We all think "hes the one" at some point but how often is that reality... barley ever. I thought that about my boyfriend for YEARS and he ended up cheating on me with many women. I guess what I'm trying to say is that at 17-years-old you aren't even an adult yet, you have a lot to go through before marriage and anything could be happen. Never be sure because you will just get let down. I'm not saying things aren't going to work out with you two, but think of how many teenagers actually marry their high school sweetheart. I don't think very many people save their selves till marriage anymore, so if thats what you believe is the right thing to do than stick with that and wait.

If there are any gods out there, why would they obsess over your sex life?

Don't believe everything you read an ancient books of nonsense and propoganda.

Yes it's a sin, I'll tell you that much, but, we sin everyday no matter what do, think or say. Pre-marital sex isn't any bigger a sin then lying to your mother. I do not want to get into a religion battle with anyone so I'm going to stop there. Religion conversations get REALLY deep. Everyone believes something else and you can't ever convince anyone of what you believe. It's in the bible though. A sin is a sin.

Well, It is a 'sin'.
As dawnathen said ''It's in the bible though. A sin is a sin.''
But also lying is a sin, being rude and disrespectful to your parents,& so many more.
So it really just depends how much you believe in all this.
But your out doing it, so I'm guessing you can't believe in it THAT much...
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Well in the Christain belief it is a sin. But in my opinion I don't have a problem with if it is with your true love that you will marry. If it feels right and you really want to... DO IT! :-)

It is a sin for Christians. Whether it's right or wrong for you depends on your situation and your morality. That's something you have to decide.

If you go by what the Church teaches, then yes it is a sin. The church also says that polluting is a sin and having excessive money is a sin. I don't know its kind of rough to tell now a days.

The church says you can only have one wife, but Moses had 4 and that wasn't a problem. The old testament didn't say anything about premarital sex to my knowledge either.(going mainly on the 10 commandments here)

The one thing that most churches agree on is that if you do sin and confess, God will forgive.

well I think this:
how does the bible say you got married back then? "he went into her."! but the bible also says to follow the laws of the land and you are not legally married now until you have the ceremony and the certificate and all those things. so take it how you want it.