Can anyone give me any advice on how to finish during sex?

I have a wonderful boyfriend and we've been dating more than a year. I love him so much, but I can't bring myself to tell him that I haven't orgasmed during sex with him.

I was a virgin before I met him and we had sex earlier on in our relationship. I enjoy it, but I have never orgasmed: I have had to fake it, except a couple of times. I can mas*urba*e fine though.

It really hurts me to keep it from him, but I don't want to tell him in case it breaks him and he dumps me over it as I have kept it secret from him for our whole relationship and he hates secrets between us. Can anyone give me any advice on how to finish during sex? I think it is because I can't concentrate during sex. Please help me! I'm so worried about it.

Thank you.

try getting on him and go back and forth instead of up and down that's how females usually org**m during sex most of the time! but you should tell him so he can make you feel more relaxed during that special moment

Why do you feel as if you have to protect him from the truth? Women do this all the time and to this day I cannot understand why you keep burdens to yourself instead of keeping it a partnership and just telling us like we're your peers instead of this sickly child.

Ok enough ranting...Just tell him what you just explained on funadvice and he'll understand. You have to be upfront and supportive because he'll feel small but if you say, 'But we can work on it' and give him a wink he'll probably be all up for that. He won't break up with you unless you embarrass him infront of somebody or something. QUIT FAKING ORGASMS!!!

Tell him, listen, I've been having a little trouble cumming with just through intercourse and I was wondering if we could try something different. Tell him you're having trouble concentrating because you're worried about satisfying him. Saying that will reassure him that he's not a bad lover and the two of you can both experiment on how to get your needs met together. Yes, it's a little white lie, but it's better than faking it. Most girls need clitoral stimulation to org**m when having intercourse, so try playing with yourself in front of him. It will put on a show for him and will get you into the right mindset to c*m. Take things slow, it will be worth the wait, I promise.

It isn't uncommon for a girl to not org**m. I think I've read somewhere only eight percent of women can actually org**m or eight percent have actually orgasmed. It's hard too. You have to sit him down and tell him the truth. Try new positions and methods. He should understand a woman's anatomy is different and it isn't instant gratification for us. Play things up some. You two can work it out.