I think I love a guy who's 3 years older

[sorry this might be really long but please read]
okay so my moms best friends son, dylan, we've been good friends for around 11 years[I'm 14&he's 16(I'll be 15 in a month)] well anyway I've always had a huge crush on him, for as long as I can remember! but just this year I'm starting to think I love him. I don't know what to do because I'm afraid if I don't tell him how I feel about him it's going to totally ruin my life and be physically imposible for me to live, like it is now. and if I do tell him I'm afraid it might ruin our friendship. another problem is I'm a virgin, and I will remain a virgin till marriage but him on the other hand...he kinda like doesnt care who he has sex with. I want to think if we do date he wont frce me into stuff I don't want to do, or worse, cheat on me because I wont have sex with him or something. but maybe I'm just overreacting. everyone tells me differnt things...some people tell me to go for it&tell him because I have a good chance with him but other people tell me not to because he's going to screw me over. I have no idea what to do!

I used to like a guy 3years older than me. I liked him since... oh grade 1? Anyway, I never asked him out, even though weve been friends forever, and he started seeing other girls. I got really upset but I realized that it was me who never did anything! I mean, if I got to him first I could've had a chance with him, but I didnt. So you can just ask him and at least if you get turned down you can say 'at least I tried.' Me? All I got was 'Damn, I should have asked him.'
Its your choice! Hope I helped.

Something simmilar happened to me. My older brothers friend had a crush on me, and he is 3 years older than me, and my dad talked to him and scared the boy soo bad, that, well, he moved to kentucky (im not sure how to spell that state) within 2 months

sooo im going out with a guy thats 2 years older soo im 14 and hes 16 but I wouldnt date a guy too old lol because that would be NASTY LOL