Feeling neglected

Hi, I feel really neglected right now, todae was the last day of exams. I feel slightly confused as to why im still not happy, and why some people still think I dont have an identity. My friends are asking to me to go out to a movie, but I feel...

unmotivated to go. Yet, after exams, im supposed to be happy? Why do I feel scared to go out even though I t hink I am quite pretty and shld be enjoying life. Why I dont dare to walk not carrying anything in my hands. Why do my actions still seems slightly controlled. Why am I having this kind of attitude? Why others still dislike me. Why I dont talk to pple? why people criticise me. Why do I look mellow slightly sad and melancholy when I look in the mirror? Why I dont feel like going out with my sec sch friends even though their my firends? Why do I feel like other pple look at me as if im the kind who stays home everyday, and why do I feel bad about that? Someone tell me what to do and fast pls ans all my qns thank u

If you would like answers I would be asking these things one at a time. Not all at the same time either because some people will just see this big essay and think no I wont read it all. its easier to get answers with simpler questions. mel x

yea shes right =/

You feel neglected? Your friends asked you to go to the movies with them... Go with them and maybe that will make you feel better...

Im never ecstatic when exams are over, it's kind of a "whatever" feeling for me... You dont have to be happy about anything...

Maybe that is part of your problem, you feell like you have to feel a certain way, look a certain way, or be a certain way.

You dont HAVE TO be anything...

As you get older ( I can't believe I actually used the getting older phrase but it's true) you realize that other people just don't matter. What they think about you is not important. In a couple of years you're not going to know most of them anyways. So who cares? It doesn't matter what they think...

You need to take things less personally, who cares if they think you dont have an identity, you know who you are and that is enough, who cares if it seems like you're a homebody? If you like staying at home then that's who you are, if you don't like staying at home, go out and don't pay attention to other people. I know saying it is simpler than doing it (I still can't eat at a restaurant alone) but little steps...

You dont go out and you dont walk around without something in your hand because you're afraid to be judged and you need some sort of shield... Stop letting what you think others are thinking control your life... First of all people are self-absorbed, they really dont care what you're doing... Secondly, who cares what they think...

If you go out and instead of focusing on what you're doing (like watching a movie or talking to your friends) you stay focused on what you're saying and what others are thinking about what you're saying, you end up missing out on a lot...

Stop overanalyzing everything...

Stop worrying about how you should feel...