Need experienced advise soon..

my boy friend is 20 about to be 21 soon... he loves me and want to marry me... he is loyal and takes care of me all the time but we're doing long distance right now... for 2 years we have never lived together for more than to weeks at a stretch... the...

bad part is that I am not as loyal as he is to me... I still try and flirt with my ex boyfreinds and other guys... but I think I love him too and I want to marry him too I'm 17 not even graduated yet.. I'm so confused please help me understand my situation?!?!?

You need to sit down with him and tell him the situation... If you like him/love him like you say then you should flirt with ex's.. Remember there ex's for a reason... If you were to catch him flirting with another girl it would hurt you a lot... So put yourself in his shoes... He wouldn't find it nice...

Stop and think about what you want.. Either let him go or stop flirting with other guys...

You can't have both worlds or you'll have nothing...

darling im married to my boyfriend we are both in the same age but I'll tell you what went wrong we loved each other like crazy so we get in trouble all the time I understand his needs but he doesnt understand mine.we felt like we are giving too much but we dont recieve on the other hand, marriage is good if you want to settle down and have family and you live for that goal, and about flirting your exs that b because you dont feel your relation is serious and when it gets serious u'd do anything to work it. I hope my experience is useful for ya :D wish you the best.

Sounds like you are moving too fast. Why do you want to get married right away? It seems like you aren't sure about what you want which is normal when you haven't had the chance to be together for more then two weeks. Two weeks is not a relationship, it's a holiday. Relationships take work and time and untill you've spent enough time together you will never be sure about your feelings. Slow down, take your time and don't rush into things. It's the only way to get to know him, him you and you together.