What to do if I found a clip of my wife having sex online?

I posted a question telling that my wifes stares at other men , now I found a mobile mms in debonaireblog.com. In that mms I found my wife having sex with another man and is taken by another person ,I am really worried I asked her ,but she refuses , she...

says she dont know. and cries. But she accepts that before marriage she had some experiences .so I think It was taken by some one closer to her.But I am worried of this after seeing her with 2 men . what should I do please help. I think of suicide . please help me ,advice pls.

Please dont kill yourself.. you dont understand how you need to deal with this. Now I'm sorry that you found these things but do you trust your wife??? Why would she be with you if it was no in fact that she loved you??? She wouldn't be with anyother men if she loved you. Beleive me I may be young but I know My boyfriend and I are in love. The only thing you can do.. is stay with her or leave her. Stay if you both love eachother because nothing can unbreak the bond of love but.. leave if you dont no matter HOW much it hurts. If she's cheating on you it's not your problem it's hers. She can't seem to understand that death do us part.. and yes.. leaving her will probably make you feel like a part of you died if you still love her. All I can say is good luck and that I hope it all works out.
-Erin

If you have got a good lover wife than it is better to enjoy her company than step out from your life. If you were not accusing and offensive you could learn that why and how she did that you think she did. There may by many reasons and circumstances.
Plus, I think that that type of mms you mention is not so good quality that you could be 100% sure that the lady is your wife. Even if she did, the circumstances may be interesting for you. In the western life many wifes has 3some before or after her marriage, and their men rarely kill themself b/c of this. Only the ill husbands do this. Healthy husbands rather wants to repeat the 3some with the wife, b/c this is the best consolation for this emotional problem.

Sorry bubux007, but not every male on the face of this earth wants to share THEIR wives!

Why would you want to kill yourself because of something your wife did?

Dear angelfire2708, we are talking about a fact what already happened (if happened, I am shure about it) without the knowing of the husband. I did not advice to share his wife with other man, I just noticed that some men just like it. So if that is possible, then there is no so tragical situation that the husband has to kill himself, or despair, or else. What is happened that is happened, and there are even a good optics to look at it. It depends on us what optics we choose. His wife was crying, so she was suffering, in this situtaion the best is that if they console each other. My advice aimed this consolation, how they may reshape all the story. From the unbearable to the acceptable, or even to the funny.