How to get my msn password back?

I was in a fight with a friend and she changed my msn password. That was 6 months ago, she says she forgets it and I still dont know it and I would love to be able to get long lost emails and in touch with friends. I cannot figure out what I put for my...

secret awnser and I never set up an alternate email. . . can somebody please help me on how I could go abouts getting the password again?

It doesn't sound good I'm afraid...

I'd say your best chance at reclaiming your MSN account is trying to guess the secret answer again. Try with capitals and without capitals and stuff as well. You might be lucky and you'll suddenly remember what it was.