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My mom wont let me chill with my friend

Asked by lovebug16 4 months ago, 10 answers.
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Ok well in 9th grade me and my best friend stopped chilling cause her now x
Boyfriend is my best friend all so and I have known him longer and she told me 2
Chose so I picked him cause I have known him 4 like 7 years and I only new
Her 4 a year and a half and well now me and him aren't talk any more and me
And her talk some times in secret cause my fam don't like her cause shes
Some what of a grub but shes the only 1 I like hanging with and I all ways
Have fun with her but my mom hates her and is all ways calling her names
And it bothers me and I want 2 tell my mom I want 2 chill with her but I
Knwo that if I do she will start botching and being all why the hell do you want too hang with that skank and all but I really want 2 chill with her
Again so what should I do ?

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Answered by lovebug16 on Jun 05, 2008, 01:48PM
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Answered by lovebug16 on Jun 05, 2008, 02:01PM
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Answered by lovebug16 on Jun 05, 2008, 02:35PM
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Answered by lovebug16 on Jun 05, 2008, 04:41PM
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Answered by nerd on Jun 05, 2008, 04:42PM
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You can help your situation by being brutally honest with all parties.
Mom, she is just a kid, and I get along with her. Do you remember being young and confused.
To both best buds- I want to remain friends with both of you, so consider me Switzerland. I don't want to hear you talking bad about your ex, bc he/she is still my friend.

Answered by lovebug16 on Jun 05, 2008, 04:45PM
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well the x part I don't talk 2 the guy any more we just stopped talking after our group split up fully and me and my x broke up and as 4 my mom again I am scared and she hates her and so does every 1 else in my fam I feel bad cause I want 2 chill with her but I don't want 2 disappoint my fam

Answered by nerd on Jun 05, 2008, 05:17PM
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Your options are pretty cut and dry. You can confront your conflicts or be satisfied with the way things are. Best wishes.

Answered by lovebug16 on Jun 05, 2008, 05:20PM
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I guess

Answered by rockergurl19 on Jul 01, 2008, 10:45PM
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so my parents dont like my best friend. When I was younger I couldnt see why. I loved her and hanging out with her, but now I kinda see why. She is headed down the wrong path and I almost went with her. As much as I hate to admite it parents are usually rite. And im only 20 so im not a parent telling you this lol

Answered by lovebug16 on Jul 03, 2008, 02:41AM
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well yea they are right for the most art and my friend is all so not to great but I have learned from past experences that all though they are going down the wrong path don't mean I have to all so I chose my fate not them