My girlfriends parents hate me

My situation is rather odd. My girlfrind and I had been together for about 3 weeks when I ment her parents, and they seemed to like me. But after the first month of us being together passed, they told her that they didn't want her to see me anymore. They apparently have a problem with my appearence. They don't like that I have long hair studded belts, and band shirts. So they told her to stop dating me, or they were threatening to never let her leave the house. While this doesn't sound like too mych of a problem, she is only 17, and is rather dependent on them. At this point we are still together but only secretly, about 2 and a half months now, and can only see each other for a small amount of time, and can never go out anywhere. Her parents are incredibly psychotic, and have even gone as far as to pay her brother to stalk me to make sure I don't go near her. I need a way to get them to accept me, and alow me to see her again. But I'm at a loss, after trying to give into their demands, and change my appearence. So I'm hoping to find a new idea.

Dude I know how you feel I have very long hair also, I have tattoo's, and I also wear band shirts Lol.

My ex girlfriends parents hated me so much, I pretty much broke up with her because of it I couldnt take it anymore. But if you really love this girl I'm going to tell you that you need to be a man for your woman and stand between her and her parents.

First you gotta let her dad know that your not going to put up with his crap and you dont care if he doesnt like you because you dont like him either. Just let him know all you care about is her daughter and you would do anything for her really let him know that there isnt anything he can do about it because you love her.