Should I tell my mom I'm a lesbian?

I no I'm young but still, I dont think I shood tell my mom, she'd literally kill me...literally! she's a very stronged beliefed christian. I'm not sure what to do!

why are you a lesbian in the 1st place?...and if you do tell your mum she's probably be really angry at u!..becuase its unethical to be a lesbian!

im NOT gay, but if I was, I would tell me mum because she sort of needs to know and if she is your mum, she should understand you!!!

im NOT gay, but if I was, I would tell me mum because she sort of needs to know and if she is your mum, she should understand you!!!

Ok, I thimk that you should give it some time. You are young still and I know for me, I am bi and I am also 30. I have had my experiences and I think that you need to wait it out. It is normal for you to find women attractive, but as far as being a lesbian, I think that you really need to experience the lifestyle first and see if that is really the case. I personally think that you are just attracted to women. That is how it started with me, but I think that I may be a little more complex than most people. If you would like to privately talk about this further, feel free to funmail me. I will not chastize you like some people on here. Good luck. My final words: Wait to tell your mother.

Well if I were you I wud tell her because if you dunt then it will ruin your life, I meen am only 13 and am giving info about...anyway am an emo and didnt no how 2 tell my mum but now she knows its fine am like an ordinary person but in a wierd way so if I were you then go ahead and tell her, you shouldnt be scared of telling a family member your secrets because if you dont tell her then it will make your life a misery. But saying that your only young so wait a while first and then see if it wears off or sumat but all am gunna say is wait until it gets worse or tell her soon!!!

In truth, everyone is different. Confront your mother, ask her to be there for you. She shouldn't have to go up against her own daughter. Sure she might be shocked, but she SHOULD know. It's what's best. Good luck.

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You should tell your mom because sooner or later she's going to start noticing. She's your mom she should love you no matter what you prefer men or woman.

Look, you are still young and your mother still supports you. If you do not know how she will react then dont say anything. The last thing you need is to be kicked out of your house. I know it feels like you are living a lie sometimes, but you got to do what you got to do... When you are able to take care of yourself then talk to her and explain how things are. If she doesnt accept you it is her problem, but atleast you will not be on the streets...

I think you should just tell her straight when shes on her own.

Theres nothing at all wrong with it at all. I'm straight but I have a load of friends who're gay and theyre just like anyone else I know.

Love is love, regardless of what sex you are.

don't tell her. what she doesn't know won't hurt her.