Is sex just a bonus in a relationship??

Is sex just a bonus in a relationship??

No not really! I love s*x and I think after your with a person long enough it makes it stronger

it a booster to asuccessful relationship,it makes the rellation enjoying and stronger ,its also a gift from God to lovers,its not a bonus but a pert of successful relation,when you afoid s*x in a rellation you also weekens the rellation, but remember much of everything is dangerous!

Yeah I do believe that s*x is JUST a bonus.
A relationship is built up on love and trust and once you have that, all you need to do is hold onto that. Some people may not agree but that is my rational way of thinking. In doing this, it also tells you how much you value the other person in the relationship. It must always be TWO of you never more or less.
Therefore... s*x is just either a fun game to play in the midst of love and trust or is when you want to concieve because you have such a strong bond you want to take on the responsibility TOGETHER for another human life.

Not at all you sould not loose your virginity until your ready to spend the rest of your life with someone

Im going to giv you advice like you do me,

NO sex is not just a bonus in a relationship

it should be built up on love!!!

U sad person!!

^^dats exactly what your like 2 me, I just think you need 2 b a litllle nycer dats all!

''angelfire2708'' is JUST being honest. Some of her advice, might be a little harsh, but people should take it. It's good advice.

And as for her question, she might just have been wondering. Doesn't mean that's what she thinks.

Here's my input on sex.
People should wait until they're married.
If they wait, then their partner will have more respect for them, I think.
And I see sex as a VERY special thing. Like it should only bring you and your partner closer, but if you're not married and not ready for the responsibility, then it can just strain the relationship.

>>>Some of her advice, might be a little harsh, but people should take it.

I don't think any of them is harsh - it's just the truth. I do enjoy reading the angry reaction that she sometimes gets, though. Amusing in a sad way. Must have hit a nerve.

well personally I belive that it depends where you are in the relationship,
if you are just starting to go out than yes I belive that it is a bonus
but if you acualyy are in love with the person and have strong feelings for them than it is just something that might acualy inhanse your relationshipp. (:

YEAH I think sex is a bonus in a relationship..
I think you sould know everything about the guy before you comitte such act..
Love and Trust should be the main corse in a relationship
Sex is just the side dishes.
Im 14 and I've done thingss.
I dont regret any thing because I've learned a lot.
but guys and girl please listen.. sex is not every thing.. that is something I have learned. it can be a big mistake.. think about it before..if it is truly worth what it could end up as. are you ready to become a parent because it can happen!

she IS rude though. you're not just harsh, you're obliviously ANNOYING and gay. I hate you so much.

It is a bonus because it can strengthen the relationship and help build up even more trust and honesty between the couple.

Should it be treated as a bonus? Not necessarily, for me at least. It's something I take very seriously, and the level of intimacy I'm willing to share depends on the relationship itself. Not just a 'we're in a relationship, therefore we should have sex' frame of mind that people I know have, lol.

When I'm in a serious relationship, sex can be lots of fun and intimate. It brings us even closer together and we learn more about each other's boundaries and desires, but I wouldn't do it if I wasn't fully ready to with a partner. There are too many consequences to think about to just treat it like something 'bonus'y, if that makes sense, lol!

omg your such a little slut!
=]

hmm...well I found sex weackened my relaition ship
I duno if that helps but yh =] x

I don't think it's just a bonus... as in you might have it or you might not.

I think sex is the ultimate physical extension of your relationship.
Actions speak louder than words... and THAT pretty much screams it.

Sex is a bonus or a curse depending on who u have to do!

yeah I agree.
yuou dont need sex to be dating someone, I mean its a great bonus, but its not like its a need.

amen ot randyo. sex should only be shared to build a relationship in marrige. as I said to someone else sex isnt just for pleasure. it's the combination of not only two bodies but to spirits, two souls. I also agree though that you(anglefire) have given some good advice

ye it depends wut part your at.if yall just started dating hellz naw.if yall been together for 5 years or sumthing thats different.I personally wont be having sex till im 18 since im only 214 now.I'm not like a 14 year old sl*t you want to get pregnant because she think it cool.

sex should not be the reason for a relationship.. It is a bonus if you have been together for a while..

no why you think that it could be frindes with benfits

I am not realy sure .. it could be I guess ... or if you have been with that petson for a while I dont think it would be