Is my hymen gone?

I wanted my boyfriend to pop my cherrry, and like, I've put stuff up in tehre like a dildo, and I had some blood after that, and it didnt hurt, I didnt even know tll I looked at it... I've been fingerd by my boyfriend and myself, and I'll try and...

look in the mirror to see, but I dont know if it is or isnt.. its sooo confusing.. please help me...

you can't get a mirror and just look up there. you're hymen is probably already broken, you can break it as a child doing the simplest things like horseback riding, gymnastics, stretching..

so don't worry if it's already gone, you're still technically a virgin since you haven't had sex.

Some people don't even have a hymen or if one is quite active it would have torn whilst doing a sport. It is no big deal. If you have already 'put stuff up there' and you have been fingered then I guess your hymen has been broken. tinatodder4 is right, you can't really put a mirror up there.
It's nothing to worry about.

Now days, virginity can be claimed until a pen_is breaks the plain of the vagi_na.