Is my boyfriend a virgin?

When I first got with my boyfriend we talked about sexual relationships that we've had in the past. After I told him how many people I had slept with I then aasked him the same question, he then told me he had slept with four people including me. I've...

never asked him who he has slept with because I do not want to know. but the other day we were out with some friends, and I was talkin to the girls that he went to school with also partners of his best mates and they unknowingly told me that he was my first. I was suprised and tryd to correct them that he had slept with four people. they wouldnt have it and said when he left school he was a virgin for sure and also that if he had had sex he would of told his mate but he never has.
after that I began to think of little things that made me feel he was actually a virgin before me. I want to know as I am worried that he will become attached and also the reason for lieing to me. do you think his a virgin and if so what shal I do??????
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I think you should do nothing. There are two possibilities: (a) he told you the truth, so everything is okay, (b) he lied you, so every uncomfortable things are of his responsibility. Why had he lied you (if so)? It is simple, he wanted to sow himself paracticed enough to be accepted by you for a turn of sex. And finally he won. So you should not worry about the story.

It is a minor issue, the issue of whether he was a virgin before you.
The issue is that you and he are presently in a relationship.
However, you make light of it saying that you do not want him to become "attached" to you.
If in fact you are his first and he did not 'fess up to you, it is probably because he was trying to save face and felt that you might make fun of him or dump him or whatever, so he gave himself as being a bit experienced in that department.
Both guys and girls do it.
However, if either of your sexual health ever becomes an issue, then knowing WHO you both slept with will then need to be brought out in the open.

So what if he was or wasnt? Does that make you think less of him? Some guys feel inferior to girls who have had sexual partners , and they havent, so he probably didnt want you thinking he wasnt up there with the rest of them.

"im worried that he might become attached"> I take it by that comment, you have NO long term plans with him! Yes, some boys do get attached to girls they lose their virginity to. If this relationship isnt going to be anything more than just a fling, I suggest you get out now, before you do some damage to this poor boys ego!

I dont plan on our relationship being a fling... I've never felt this way about someone before so im not to worried about him gettin attached... its not that im worried about him gettin attached because he already is like I am ... im worried about he becoming overprotective and abusive. the reason why I worry for this is because its happened to me twice before in past relationships and at such a young age I dont want to be going through an abusie relationship. I love this boy so much and I dont want nothing to change. And no I dont think any less off him ... I was just a bit confused about why it had all happened! xxx