Is losing your virginity painful?

Is the first time really that painful? How bad does it hurt?

it can be painful.
it was not that painful for me, but just do it solwly the first time, then wait a few days to do it again, and use condoms both times.

I'm still a virgin but I've read about this. It can be painful but everyone is different. Anyways if it is painful it shouldn't last long. A few minuets to an hafe an hour.

It depends on you. If you are turned on enough and you p**y is open enough, then the pain is marginal. If you force the penetration, then it is more painful.

Ya it hurts but not much if you r in a same mood.I guess we should try once dont you feel?

it only really hurts for the first few minutes.
just make sure hes going at the pace you want him to.

utterly yes...it is painful...but its ok...just do it very slowly..
y dun you start it with a finger first...maybe you can ask your boyfriend to do it for u...after you get the mood and you become more horny...try to enter the pen*s slowly inside your pus*y...try it...
u will feel less pain...

goodluck...

Sex should never hurt. If it does hurt, it means something is not quite right. Most of the time when people feel pain during sex, it's because they rush into it without actually learning anything about reproductive anatomy first.

The most common cause of pain is simply not having enough lubrication. That can very easily be fixed with foreplay or a bottle of lubricant from the store. The problem is that too many people don't know about lubrication before having sex. A lot of people don't really know what lubrication is or why it is necessary. So many people have this warped idea that sex is supposed to hurt that when it does, they don't even question it.

The second most common cause of pain is being tense and nervous.

So if you actually know about your body, are lubricated, and are a comfortable and relaxed, then sex should not hurt. If it does hurt even when you are lubricated and relaxed, make sure you talk to your ob-gyn about it as that can be a sign of other problems such as infection.

yes my x did hurt when we did it

yeah it can be really painful depending on his size and and if your small too. be carefull and smart. honestly you DONT want to degret your first time, a lot of people do. and like everyone has sad, you need to be in control. do it when your ready and go at your pace.

wait til your married