Is it possible to love two people?

Asked by cherrylip122707 8 months ago, 4 answers.

Okay well here's my story.

I have a boyfriend named Jr. that I met over a year ago, online. When we met we were first best friends for months and months and there was an obvious attraction, and he says he was scarred of asking me out because aparently...

he's not used to asking girls out, because they usually ask him out. Anyways though, we've been together for four months now, not including the months we talked on the phone for hours and hours. Now we talk almost every night and text everyday [Literally it's a good thing I have unlimited texts because last month I used about 1850, and no that's not a typo] and he's coming to see me in August. And I truly think I'm in love with him. It's not a childhood love kind of thing, I really feel in love with him. And I know that I'm only almost-sixteen but I think it's possible to love someone at my age, still.

And here's the second part of my story:

A few months ago in December I met this guy named David, online. And we ended up talking online and on the phone for hours till a few days later I invited him to come to the movies with me and my friends, yes, he lives here, although in the city. None the less we met and there was such an attraction and I grew to really like eachother. So we decided to "go out" and things like that. Like I met his mom and everything, and I'm pretty much seeing him every weekend and sometimes twice on weekends. As of now, we've been dating for three months and I'm starting to feel kind of like how I do for Jr. We've faught sometimes and he knows about Jr, but he thinks he's a friend. But a little too friendly friend so he wanted me to stop talking to him. And I did for two days and I can't stay away from him. I mean I am in love with both of them.

I know what I'm doing is bad and I know you probobly think it's just "teen love" but I have never felt anything like how I feel with both of them. I just wish I knew how to deal with this without hurting them and me.

The whole point of my title "Is it possible" is just meant to ask, do you think it's possible to love two people at once?

Answered by nicole_dawn on Apr 03, 2008, 12:40PM
| 559 answers.

honestly, I think it's possible.. I've been in situations but I didn't meet them online.
you just have to think, who's going to be there for you in the bitter end?

Answered by icecream on Apr 03, 2008, 01:38PM
| 45 answers.

And the answer to that is YES. But what you need to do is find out what you love about them and you need to stop looking for guys on line. Love does not have a face nor hate, so you can love 2 people you can love 100 people but it depend on what type of love. Find out what type of love you have for those 2 guys

Ice

Answered by lanegrachula87 on Apr 03, 2008, 02:08PM
| 15 answers.

Hmm well I do believe it is possible to love more t han one person at the same time but I don't think you can be IN love with more than one. it seems like you love your boyfriend, but maybe not getting to see each other so much is bothering you and you don't even realize it. There is something that this new guy has that you boyfriend lacks and you have an extreme attraction to him because of it. Maybe you should try 2 figure what your original relationship is lacking and see if it can be fixed. Decide who you are happier with in the end,and GO FOR IT.. follow your heart it's the best way

Answered by m3xiican_4lif3 on Apr 03, 2008, 05:37PM
| 40 answers.

no its not possible to love 2 men at the same time
there has to b only one on your life, you have to pick one
and you better soon or else you well hurt both of them
and will end up wit none of them and you will lose both of them
spend the same amount of time wit them like one week wit 1
and the other wit the other one and see wit which one you most
enjoy being with and just decide but just pick one
hope this helped good luck

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