Is it okay for a guy to take care of his woman?

I asked this question last week, but I was hoping to get more answers, because I only got 2 answers recently. So, I'm now asking again. :-) Here was how I posted my question:

I heard about this Fun site on the local news, so I decided to check it out...

for myself, because there is something I'd like to confess. And I'm confessing it here because I can't tell friends or family, because gender roles these days are not the same as they used to be.

I'm a straight, healthy guy in his early 30's ( although I look about 23 ), making almost 7 figures per year, and I've always wanted that one special, beautiful woman in my life that I can totally take care of. In addition to her being the special woman in my life and sharing a great life together with me, the "take care of" part means that she can depend on me absolutely for money, so that she doesn't have to worry about working. :-)

Don't get me wrong, it's not as if I'm a control freak who wants to have control over anything she does. I'm just saying that I've always loved the idea of being able to provide a nice, comfortable lifestyle for the special, beautiful woman in my life, so that she doesn't have to worry about the daily grind of work. Everything else about the relationship would be the same as it is in a successful, happy relationship.

Whether she is my wife or my live-in girlfriend ( either one is fine with me ), she would be able to wake up next to me each day and go about her day in any way that she likes, because she'll have the comfort of knowing that she doesn't have to worry about anything related to money, and she would be able to have what she wants when she wants it. ... Plus, in the event of anything unforseen happening, she would have an additional "emergency" amount from me in her account that she won't need to use, an amount that she could live on for several years if needed. That way, if anything happened to me ( if I were in an accident, or if she just wants to break up with me ), she would have that as a safety net. That would of course be seperate from the everyday money that she has access to.

Do successful relationships like this still exist, relationships in which a woman's man is doing well and he totally takes care of her, and the couple is in love just like any other happy couple? I hope they do still exist. I have to believe they do. I'm a healthy, energetic, passionate guy who just wants that one special, beautiful woman in his life who isn't too shy about being comfortably provided for, age 18-30.

So, I jusy wanted to get your views on this. I'm sure you can understand why I wouldn't be able to just talk to anyone I know about it.

I welcome your comments, positive and negative. And I understand that you might want to keep them private, so, if you prefer, you can e-mail me instead. It's johnsmith2046 ( at ) yahoo.com .

Thanks in advance for responding with your thoughts! ... John ;-)

... The only case of this that I know of didn't go over so well.

The man got tired of his wife being lazy and asked her to get a job because in this world it takes 2 paychecks to live. Well she wouldn't and one day he came home and asked her to put the money back in his acount that she had taken out that day because he wanted a devoirce. (SP?)
Well long story short he hit her moved in with his new girlfriend got her pregnant and is just moved to his new house in kansas after the signed the papers.

( THIS IS TRUE )

It was my father's friend. This is his 4th time doing it too.

I think relationships like this should still exist but because of the way the world is today!! There very few and far between!!

If you thikn about it the majority of middle classed people earn maybe between 15,000 and 25,000 and at this for people to have children a mortgage and whatever else they want and at the same time be able to live comfortablly boht partners have to work!!

But another way to look at is think of footballers and celebrities all their wives or girlfriends have some kind of job I think that if I was to be a wives to that then I also would have to find something to do with my day be it a small part time job but the again if I had a big enough house and plenty kids then I suppose you would have plenty to do with that..

And all luck for the future
Hope you find the relationship that you want some day!!

sorry sister, but those fairy tales are for the movies. unless you want some gold-digging bimbo who cheats on you every night, this isn't going to happen. real women WANT to work. it's part of living life. real women are independent. no women wants to stay home all day with 42 kids while her husband is out making all the dough. that just shows weakness on her part. if you want to find love then you have to try dating OUTSIDE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE. don't keep looking for girls that you think will fit perfectly into your dream life plan. just DATE. the perfect girl for you could be someone totally unexpected.