Why don't sexual activities feel good to me?

whenever my boyfriend fingers me I get no pleasure. we've had sex twice and didnt have pleasure either time also. is that normal?

ok firstly is it uncomfortable and doesnt feel right or do you just not get any pleasure?

maybe your guy is just not good at fingering!? or your too loose. with the s*x issue try ribbed or studded condoms and the fingering thing well theres not much you can do there to be honest because its probably due to your partners skills. by the way have you tried fingering yourself and if you have, did this give you any pleasure either?