Is it normal to get scared of love?

walking in the rain Asked by l0standbr0k3n 10 months ago, 4 answers.

ok well I love my boyfriend an awful lot, im just so scared that he wil hurt me mentally , I dont know why hes been nothing but really nice to me but im still scared, im going through deppression and all that so im guessing that might be why im feeling...

like this, I just want to know if there is some way I can get passed this as I really dont want to end it with him which im afraid I mite if I dont feel secure enough!
any advice would be great! thanks!
xxXxx

Answered by rachel1007 on Jan 14, 2008, 03:35PM
| 43 answers.

I think that most people would tell you no, and say that it comes "naturally" and that you "shouldn't" question it. but, I'll give you the hard truth. if you truely love the person, you're always going to be scared of losing them and you're always going to be scared of them hurting you, which seems like a pretty good reason not to say anything, right? well, personally I think it's better to just put it all out there. I mean, if you think he loves you back, tell him. if you think there's a chance that he doesn't love you back, still tell him you love him. relationships are about learning how to express your feelings and about honesty. I hope that helps!!

Answered by chriscross on Jan 14, 2008, 03:56PM
| 132 answers.

yeah I totaly agree with rachal1007 she totally right love I think scares everybody because if you love some one you don't want to screw up I loose them etc.

Answered by bethanyb157 on Jan 14, 2008, 05:07PM
| 5 answers.

well yes its normal to get scared of love because being kind of nice can be a bit scarry and boring if youre that type of girl like me. youre just trippin itll be okay just talk to him spend more tyme. if you can never forgive some one you lose em

Answered by l0standbr0k3n on Jan 15, 2008, 09:47AM
| 32 answers.

thanks everyone thats helped a lot
xxXxx

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