Is he just using me, or is it over?

Hi I have a boyfriend of 2 years everything used to be great he would do anything for me he would rush over to see me. now he takes his time to come and see me when we are together he wont even touch me not even hold my hand we hardly ever kiss and he...

never takes me out, all we do is fight other wise the only time things seem to be good is when we are in the bed. do you think he is using me for that or does he really love me? how do I know what to do? I never feel happy I dont want to really touch him because I dont think he wants me to. what do I do???

okay,try holding out on the sex for at least a month and see how he acts,see if he stop calling you or coming around,I dont think he deserve your (goodies)and you shouldnt give it away if he hasnt earned the (goodies) you are making it easy for him to treat you this way.when he ask you why you are changing throw the question back at him and ask him why he has changed?tell him he doesnt treat you the way he use to,and he need to continue to do the things he used to get you and keep you ,or you will move on,its his call.best wishes

Just sit down and talk to him. Find out what's changed in his mind and move from there. Tell him that you feel that he's changed, grown more distant. That's the only way you'll find out what's wrong and if it's fixable. The withholding sex part seems kinda childish and also requires you to spend a month doing nothing. (Not to mention it could worsen the situation turning something that might have been fixable before into something irrevocably broken. The straw that broke the camels back so to speak.)