Is he just a jerk or is it me?

I have been with this guy for almost 2 years on and off. I want o move forward and live together I offered to pay half of everything and do the cooking and cleaning. He gets mad at me when I am not there at his house and mad at me for bringing too much...

or too little. We broke up over this he told me to get out of his house and take my sh#t and left me walking down a busy intersection to get to a phone to call for a ride. He later appolgized after we had been broken up for two months. I talked to him about getting back together and he says no but he wants me to act like we are. I did date because I thought that by his answer that he did not want to do more then that. He went through my phone found a text message I sent to guy saying thanks for the date it was cool. And called the guy then spent two days calling me disloyal and a slut among other things and accused me of sleeping with this guy. I am now I guess with this guy who acts like a jerk but he says we are not a couple but we act like it. I can't date anyone else and I don't want the head trip anyway. He yells at me over misunderstandings and throughs things around he broke my cell phone. I was on my way home from work and he called and said to meet him later at his work and to go get some clothes and things form my house. Then called me a few minutes later and told me to meet him at his house. Then called again and said for me to go home and then called to meet at his house and forget about getting my things. Once I got there I waited for him for 15 mins he came riding up and asked how long I was there and I told him them he started yelling at me and cussing at me for not picking him up form work and for not getting my things already since I didn't pick him up from work. He is always telling me I am stupid or other names and I feel like what am I doing to p*ss him off so bad? Am I really stupid? I have a child from a former realationship and I often have to choose him or her and he says it is not that way and I am tripping and being stupid if I think he is. An example he wants to go out for a trip where kids are not welcomed for a weekend that I have my child. I told him I don't see her hardley at all and I don't want to gove up the weekend with her. He said that he would find someone else to take if I was going to act like that. I need toknow what am I doing so wrong am I wrong for feeling like he is controlling and disrespectful? Is it me......

So when did you say you are going to stop taking this abuse?

You dont need this assh...oops, guy. He does not love you, he just wants to control you, or keep you around till he finds someone else. Do yourself a favor and find someone else who is worthy of you!! Besides, ANYONE who does not accept your kid, you should tell to take a hike. Your child is worth so much more than this jerk!! Good luck!

well you need to take control of yourself and if he tries to hit you you got two options you can hit him in his middle 2 times or you can call the police what im saying is you need to take control of your own self make him fell what you have been felling just dont kill him