Is he cheating on me?

How do I get over thinking that my boyfriend of almost a year is cheating on me or is going to cheat on me? There are little signs ie missed time, not answering his cell, not texting back, other womens pics in his cell phone, doesn't have sex as much as...

we were in the beginning, tells me no all the time, only wants it when he wants it. There are little white lies or information missing then weeks later there will be some story. He also cheated on his wife with me 4 years before we started dating again.
I am going crazy! He is threatening to cheat since I can't stop accusing him. He told me today what do you want me to go out and cheat so it can be done and over with?. No of course I don't want him to cheat. I love him.

"Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater." He cheated on his wife with you, now hes cheating on you! I would guarantee it!

Hes giving you all the signs. Why arent you taking them? If you dont expect much out of a relationship..thats exactly what your going to get! If you want to act naive, and not do anything about what you suspect..then he will continue to trample all over you.

A cheater is a cheater, I don't care how many times he says he has changed they can't, it's a part of them. Also, if you're having trust issues there really isn't a point of being with him. If you're constantly doubting him then you're spending most of your time accusing instead of loving. Sure you care about him a lot, but you need to think what is best for you and there is no stress worse then thinking your boyfriend is cheating. I know you love him and what not but you can love someone and not like them as a person and when it gets to that point you need to let go. Yes it will be really hard but there is no reason to be with him just because you have been for a while, if the trust isn't there you need to move on to someone who you don't have to doubt. Love is a happy thing, not a suspicious one.

What do you love about him? He disrespects you, lies to you, cheated on his wife, hides information?

Why do you women love these losers?

Honey, are you expecting him to tell you "yes I am cheating on you?" he won't tell you. obviously he likes you because why else would he be with you...but think about it this way. He got married and his wife felt special, he made her think and feel she was the ONE for him....then he cheats on the person he took the extra step with....with you.....how can you even keep a man that has a cheating history.....it's like marrying a man who slapped you once saying he won't do it again and has a history of abuse.....hello!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You quote: He also cheated on his wife with me 4 years before we started dating again.

OK...Im sorry to say but you should have known this is part of his personality....what made you think he wouldn't do it to you? Since the signs are pointing in this direction...and you don't seem to trust him...you should either leave him...or work it out along with a trained realtionship coach...if you want it to work then you both must put in the effort or you will just be looking at your own reflection as his ex wife had to do when he was cheating on her with you.... don't mean to be mean I understand your hurt....but you both need to get some help. good luck!

look I hate more than anythin guys who cheat or even just keep there options open it like some guys always need that constint reasurance they are wanted else where anyway I have been there more than once and if you really want to know the truth here is a couple of things you can do.......that I have done and has worked ................... first off I want to point it well hurt but its worth it it well make or break your relationship and you when concidering if its worth sticking around for or not need to keep in mind what your idea of a relationship and commitment is and keep that in mind if you do find him doing somthing you would never consider so you know if its worth sticking around for because if you want to work it out and you arent on the same page of what a relationship and commitment is it wont ever work and is always a hard time but worth getting over (it only get better) back to finding out what he is up too.......................... on thing I always notice "friends" yours and his always know or see somthing you don't be open minded to hat your friends out put is and watch how is friends act around you............ one good one I have done is if he has instant msgner or my space account or anything like that creat a fake one of your own using a random name a some girls picture off google or somthing you think is his type and work your way in with him as though your just some girl who stumbled across him and think he is cute or somthing (put the bate out) see where he takes it ....my x went all the way to have this fake person I created call him and I had a friend from work call and set a date with him at some resturant and I was there to great him when he arrived and dumped him on the spot........another thing is surprise him at work one day with some food or like to leave a cute note on his car just because "you where in the area and thinking of him" (just to see if hes there) but of course he never needs to know you where ever there lol .....................and last but not least go where you think he might be................if he says hes at the guys go by make sure his car is there and if needed find some (fake) reason to go in and talk to him if you think his friends are in on it................. my most recent insident I met this guy at a bar where we are regulars and I and a suspition to go see if he was there one night and I of cource found him there and sat in the back where he couldent see me and watched him ...............I found out he was flirting (but getting no where lol) dancing and buying girls drinks I then walked up to tell him told him I was there and it was over the look on his face was pricless.............. you could also pay some chick that is hanging out where ever he may bein school or abar for example to go hit on him and see how far he goes and belive me most girls are so understanding when it comes to jerks they well help you u..........................well I hope that gives you some ideas good luck and stay strong know every thing happens for a reason always for the better

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