Is he ashamed of me?

last one Asked by agre3614banna 6 months ago, 7 answers.

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months and he still hasn't told his parents about me...at first I thought it was the fact that I'm still technically married (but in the process of getting divorced) but the other day he told me...

that his dad met his mom while his mom was still married so that shouldn't b a problem right? and all of his friends like me a lot and they all know we are together and he takes me with them you know to hang out. but there is this one friend of his that he told the other night that we weren't really together...this friend doesn't hang out with the other friends that we hang out with and it seriously pissed me off but then I said somethin to him about it (but I didn't tell him that I knew he told the other kid that) but that I just felt like he was ashamed of me or something and he started being nicer and right in front of the other kid would kiss me or put his arm around me and kiss my head now I want him to tell his parents about me...I still feel like he is ashamed of me or something and I don't need it...he's always telling me that he loves me and stuff so if he really does this shouldn't b a problem right...well please help me figure out what exactly to say to him...thanks

Answered by ergherghergh on May 26, 2008, 10:05AM
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talk to him about it all just come straight out and ask him why, if he cant think of an answer or doesnt have an understandable reason then dump him, he obviously isnt worth it
good luck

Answered by informer_220 on May 26, 2008, 11:39AM
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he might not be ashamed of you but he also might not like his parents knowing about him being in a relationship.
you should talk to him rather than urge him. take it slowly, find out whats wrong and DONT loose your cool or you will ruin it.

Answered by theinjun on May 26, 2008, 01:29PM
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Sounds like you have been thinking WAYYY too much about this and he probably hasn't or has a reason of why he has not told his parents about you yet. Maybe it is just me but what is the big deal about telling your parents? I never told my parents about my wife until she got pregnant...why didn't I? Because it is not their business to know whom I'm dating. He might feel the same way or he may not want them to put a restriction on your relationship in some way or maybe he just doesn't want their opinion on anything.

Just don't put anything on the wall, just read it instead. In other words ASK HIM WHY before making assumptions.

Answered by stephanief987 on May 26, 2008, 04:48PM
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Maybe he doesn't want his parents know because your like 19-20 and already experimenting with a divorce.

Answered by captainassassin on May 26, 2008, 05:43PM
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...yeah, and maybe HE has a few secrets that you don't know about yet.

Answered by agre3614banna on May 26, 2008, 05:43PM
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there's no experimenting...I'm getting divorced...and yes I'm experienceing a divorce and it blows trust me...don't b dumb like me and get married

Answered by queen_bee on May 26, 2008, 07:44PM
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My family and I are NOT close. I have gone out with some guys and they understandably don't get why I don't want them to come over to the house or talk with my parents but it has never been because I like them any less...in fact, it's more that I like them so much that I don't want my family to sully them haha. Look at it from his point of view, maybe he's not ashamed of you but of his parents instead.

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