Is 14 too young to have sex?

Ok well I have a question about sex. See my friend is 14 and shes already having sex. Is it too early for her? Shes been having sex for a few months now and I just found out. So please answer this.

And heres another question.

Me and my boyfriend...

have been going out for two months now and hes already wanting me to have sex with him. And I have but he doesn't want to use a condom. Now I just flat out tell him no but then he tries to get me to do it anyways. So please tell me a way I can convince him to wear a condom..

#1 14 is too young to have sex. I was 21 when I started having sex and I was not emotionally ready for the stress that comes along with having a sexual relationship. There are a lot of things that come along with beginning a sexual relationship, things that aren't easily explainable and things that aren't easy to actually go through either. You have only been dating this person for 2 months, how much do you really know about him? Thats wayyyy too soon in my opinion.
#2 a condom is most important, not only does it help combat unwanted pregnancy, but it also helps against STD's, and most importantly HIV infection. Im not trying to scare you, however I want you to understand how huge the risks are if you don't use a condom. Not using a condom can result in you throwing you life away, by way of an unwanted pregnancy, or an incurable disease. If he still doesn't want to use a condom after that, then he doesn't really care about you, because if he did care he would be concerned about your future and your health. BE SAFE.

Peace and Blessings

I've know this person for 10 years..Hes been my bestest friend through everything..We just decided to date 2 months ago ever though we knew we wanted to 3 years ago..

And I really don't like the feel of condoms but yeah..I'm sure he'll listen to me and eventually will get it through his head that I won't do anything until he wears one.

Well Fourteen is too young but I really have no room to be taklking because I starded when I was 13, and now I want you and her to know to not have sex until your older. b/C if other people found out and then your screwed b/c parents may not want their kids hanging out with you b/c they'll think all of you r like that havign sex.

for u:
If he don't want to use a condom then that right there is not a TRUE boyfriend b/c if he loves you he would respect your wishes and use one I starded having sex and my Boyfriend used one b/c he said we were to young but wanted to try it and he sadi they only way he woud let me try it was if he used a condoma dnit took my Birth Control so It would be extra safe. I think your boyfriend probably thinks he can get you to use a Birth Control and thinks if you get its your fault and not his b/c your the one taking the pill. ASK him again and if he says no... then leave him as much as it hurts he don't deserve you if he dont care enough to protect you...sorry if I sound retarded.

ok tottaly diferent advice!!!!!
hi im v and im 15
uve known this guy for 10 freakin years.....but he should be checked anyways..remember what looks clean isint always so.
but if your positive hes clean and you are too bearback can be fun...as long as he NEVER and I cant stress that enough NEVER!!!!!!!cums inside you your ok.
and as for your friend....14 is no too young to have sex.sghure a lil early than accepted by the multitude but not too early in my opinion as long as your ready both physically and mentally for sex and the psychological strings that come with it and your carefull..........theres no problem.just please remember not to confuze sex with any other feeling...because then it will make any relationship complicated.sex is not love sex is sex....love is a whole different ball game ok
hope I helped at least a lil
-v-

^ the above statement is totally wrong. Even if He is indeed clean then there is still risk/diseases you STILL could acquire.

And for the "not cumming inside of you" That is also false, it is also possible to get pregnant even if the male pulls his pen*s out. Its called "pre-c*m" and pre-c*m does contain sperm, which can get you pregnant

So, I suggest that you use a condom. Even if you feel total comfortable with him.