Insecure and low self esteem

In know I have low self esteem and I am very insecure, to the extreme, its really affecting my relations with people,how can change?

As hard as it seemsyou really just need to learn to accept yourself and love who you are when you can do that other people will see that too. If you can't love yourself than no one else can right? just try to be confident and try to show your not insecure and so self critical about yourself becuase honestly people don't even notice half of the bad things you see about yourself. Anyways good luck!

 
You need to start doing things that help to improve your sense of self-worth.

If there are agencies or organizations in your area that utilize volunteers, then join one or two and you will find that your self-esteem starts growing. They could be church organizations, food or soup kitchens, organizations that aid the elderly, etc.

You are a valuable asset to your community. You just have to find a niche where you can perceive your value.

As you become a participant you will develop self-confidence.

hi you know what iam like you with my seelf esteem and I think you can get help 4 this or talk to people about how you feel and iam a million times liek that but because I grewlike that family problems when I was a kid violense and thats how its started and I really want help to sniff