In great relationship but still flirty

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and its great he helps me with my bills and takes care of ...basically an all arond great boyfriend. He wants to marry me trying to have kids but I have a small problem im a huge flirt. I've never cheated on him...

but I gave other guys my number and talk to them. When I meet a new guy somewhere and he flirts with me I flirt back if I find him attractive. I dont know whats wrong. Im sexually pleased and everything . I just dont know what to do ...advice?

I think that there's a flirt deep down inside of each of us, some of us actually flirt without really noticing it.

If you do want to stop doing it, though, I think it all comes down to self-control. When you notice that he's flirting with you, whether or not you think he's attractive, you have to try to brush it off and reply in a non-flirtatious way. You need to remember what you have at home, and try to remember how much your boyfriend loves you.

If that method doesn't work, just try to put yourself in his position. (Thinking wise, when you're doing it.) Ask yourself what you'd think and feel if he did that. (Flirting with other women, giving them his number)

Those are the methods I use, and I hope they may be of help to you. Good luck!

simplychallenging has good advice but there is something I want to add...flirting is fine, everyone does it(well almost) but giving out the phone # part...I wouldn't do that, personally I think thats not good. but hey its up to you and if your boyfriend is fine with it then go ahead.

thanks to both of you its hard to explain when they call me I either dont answer or tell them oh yeah we'll hang out but I never do or I end up being friends with them...my boyfriend is also very insecure and he always thinks im cheating on him because of numbers in my phone and them textin or calling me and I explained to him that I only want to be him ...I also told him im a flirt and he said he noticed it and said he was worried bout what the guys would do not me...im just scared that I actually mite do something more and lose him

Nothing is wrong with you. Being flirty is the basic character of a part of the people, and this character is certainly better then being unfriendly, dumb, boring or rigid. If I were your b/f I would prefer this character, even well knowing that once you will cheat on me. Since once you will cheat ).

hey bubux what do you mean by that...since one you will cheat? im not offended just confused lol