Im a virgin... shes not.

hey my girflriend is not a virgin... shes pretty experienced and im not.
im a virgin and I want to do it, I just am worried I wont be good enough for her because shes experienced and ill just embarass myself.
and even when im ready to do it, how do I...

go about getting there? just like when were getting into it and then suddenly like make the move?

thanks for any help I feel like a complete dork asking this... but whatever, I appreciate any feedback.

Tell her that you are virgin, and ask her to teach you. If she refuses
it is OK: you avoided an embarassing situation, if she agrees; you will learn something nice and good. Do not worry.

Some girls actually like the fact that a guy hasn't "been around town". It shows that they don't use girls for sex and appreciate that in a relationship. If its true with you or not, some girls still have that portrayal. You can be upfront with her and tell her you never went all the way. Try to avoid lying because it will be easy to find out if your experienced or not. If she really likes you than she would be flattered that she's your first, that would be real shallow if she thought you were a dork.

As for actually getting there just go with the flow and let it happen naturally. First make sure you have protection and make sure you know how to use it ahead of time. Start off with foreplay which will warm you up and warm her up. You can start with making out and fondling or engage in oral sex. It's always a good idea to start with foreplay because men typically get stimulated faster than women. If you want the experience to be good for both of you, make sure she ready and warmed up. Then take it from there. You can't go wrong, it will come instinctively. Think of it this way, if animals with the lowest of IQ's can do it then you can too. Although you may be able to have sex correctly, it takes practice to be good at it. So if at first you don't succeed, try and try again.

Sometimes it's a big turn on to "teach" someone. Experienced or not, I'm sure everything will be fine. Goodluck

I'd say tell her the truth. Chances are very good that she already knows from the way you act around her. Most experienced girls can tell if a guy is a virgin or not. Tell her and learn from her. Practice makes perfect, swallow your pride for now.