If it is love--then what?

I am a 20 year old female and I believe that I really like or even love this 16 year old boy. I mean I know it is statetory rape or whatever when we have sex but...it is not all that often and nobody knows about us for those reasons. (especially his dad)...

But when it comes down to it when we have sex its not even on a boyfriend/girlfriend/ realationship and it is not all that often maybe 1 every 3-4 months. But anyway I really think I like/love him a lot and I dont know if it will scare him away especially since we have been frineds for years because he lives across the street!!! But my question is should I really tell him how I feel or hold it because of age diffrence and the fear of losing what we have. BTW I am asking for advice not criticism!!!

hmm
you should ask him first on how he feels about you and whatever his answer is, well just feed off that

good luck